Do you think this is fucked up?

iStaySmacked said:

If he finds out that i was taking his bud, it would be by me telling him. He's def not gunna find out on his own. He's 54 and doesnt have time to pay attention to how much weed he has at a time. Either way, he wouldnt be mad at me taking his weed after he finds out i smoke. I think he would be comforted because i was getting it from a safe sorce.

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Sounds to me like you are rationalizing being a thief. Come clean, tell him you smoke & that you've been pinching HIS weed. It dosn't matter if he gets lb's at a whack, stealing is stealing.
In the long run he will think you "more a man" for owning up.
I would.

Here is more food for thought,,,It's Weed,,,It's illegal,,,Is he a theif enjoying bud that is really not missed?,,,personally i waste a lot and would be happy for my offspring to toke with me. It's sure beat's Stealing all of it at once for "crack,Meth," or something. Just think If he did not smoke the kid can Rat him out if he were a dick! But don't lie like you ain't never done anything wrong,,,cause you did and pinchin' the stach from daddy O' is born in the family.

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Oh trust me I'm no saint that's for damn sure, but i would/could never still from family. Even tho the weed may not be missed he is still taking it from his dad without his knowledge. Honestly I would just tell him you smoked. Your 18, so technically your an adult so its your choice whether to smoke weed or not. He might start smoking with you or he might not, or he could just start kicking you down some every once in a while instead. I don't know maybe its just cause I believe in Karma and it can be a bitch sometimes.

Just get your own bag and leave it somewhere pops finds it and see what goes down. But quit stealing nugs I'd punch my kid in the chops over swiping my nugs!!!! My mom used to pinch my sack so I'd bust her balls and she would deny it it's too fucking funny.

So I voted No (again) because stealing is wrong...though I would have done the same at your age.

Here's the deal...I guarantee that your Dad knows or at least suspects...He is a stoner...we can tell. But he is in a bit of a situation...He can't say much...you might tell mom...he does not want to condone your smoking...pretend it is not happening and you don't have to deal with it (My parents would move my 3 foot bong and never said a word).

You said he would be disappointed, so here is the deal...you have to be your best at everything you do...starting with telling the truth. Show him that you can take care of business, and then after it is done, you can go do whatever you guys like, playing/watching sports, fishing, surfing whatever and enjoy a smoke...mom will love that you are spending time together.

If you can't pull off the perfect routine, you may not want to come clean...cuz dad is gonna be seeing that "I learned it by watching you" commercial and it is liable to piss him off...paying rent is a bitch

Either way...do your best to do the right thing in all aspects of your life...you obviously know right from wrong...but you need more practice!

Try the truth. Lying is anadolescent psychological trait.

Once you start talking the truth, you won't need to lie.

Grow Up

i would have done the same, i dont give a FUCK! But yeah, confront him and smoke together...

I would pack him a bowl of the weed you stole from him and see if he notices, dont steal from your family man, it does not matter how small, they are the only ones you will ever have and if you burn that bridge you will regret it every day of your life.

Certainly i'd have taken a gram of bud from my fathers QP stash when i was 16 years old, at 18 i had my own money and well, morals for the best part, at 22 i know how naive it is to think he's old he's got lots he won't miss any. My brother has done just that kind of thing in the past, taken a bud from a bunhc of ounces thinking i've enough, it won't be missed, well i tell you, chucking a big bag of bud onto some scales and taking note of the weight is no complicated task

Yea its the principle of the matter. If you are responsible enough to smoke the herb you should be responsible enough to earn it.

akgrown said:

I would pack him a bowl of the weed you stole from him and see if he notices, dont steal from your family man, it does not matter how small, they are the only ones you will ever have and if you burn that bridge you will regret it every day of your life.

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Agreed.... don't burn your family man because they are your only true fall-back.

maybe it's just me, but if i had a kid 18+ and i found out they were stealing my weed for 2 years i would think it was fucking hilarious. only a stoner could end up such a victim. fuck it, you're 18. come clean and offer to smoke some of his stash with him. stop stealing it, though. it becomes a lot more skeevy when you're an adult imo.

For me it would be weird to smoke with my dad, Hell my brother smokes all the time and it's weird enough being around him.

All your replies have got me thinking so much. I dont think im going to confront him about it or tell him though. i think i might just stop taking his bud and buy my own.

And by the way, he gets the dankest bud. Its so fucking good but i never know what it is lol. I wouldnt take any of it if it wasnt good. And i do have a job. I work at his jewelry store and he never pays me cash. he just transfers money to my account, so its kinda hard taking alot of cash at a time without them noticing. (my mom works for a bank so she always monitors our accounts.)

iStaySmacked said:

All your replies have got me thinking so much. I dont think im going to confront him about it or tell him though. i think i might just stop taking his bud and buy my own.

And by the way, he gets the dankest bud. Its so fucking good but i never know what it is lol. I wouldnt take any of it if it wasnt good. And i do have a job. I work at his jewelry store and he never pays me cash. he just transfers money to my account, so its kinda hard taking alot of cash at a time without them noticing. (my mom works for a bank so she always monitors our accounts.)

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Ok, come clean - you work at your dads store, mom monitors your money . . . How old are you really?

GreatwhiteNorth said:

Ok, come clean - you work at your dads store, mom monitors your money . . . How old are you really?

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I second that!

I said it earlier... i turned 18 on June 11

Guaranteed your dad knows somebody's pinching his stash. If you don't have siblings then he knows its you. He's probably trying to see what kind of person you are, keep stealing his shit or man up about it. But no way a kid is outsmarting his pops, you're only kidding yourself.

Also, get your own bank account man. If that's your earned money make a new account so only you have access to it. Learn some independence man.

1. quit stealing things
2. quit taking money from your dad
3. get a job

Johnny Retro said:

1. quit stealing things
2. quit taking money from your dad
3. get a job

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The MAN Code according to Johnny.
It applies.
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