i'm in the same boat you are... But i've made up my mind that will order some i've done the reasearch i have a seperate address even though after all that i've read i almost would mind getting directly shipped to me... But i want to be an the safe side of things. But common sense prevails when i really think about what i'm about to do.
1. It just seeds... Seeds! When you get pulled over and a cop happens to find some seeds nothing happens. I read on multiple sites that seeds do not smell and are undetectable in small numbers. I seen a pic of how they shipped in stealth they stuffed the seeds in holes on the side of a piece of card board. I think in t-shirts and magazines.
2. The police would be more apt to bust the supplier than the consumer, police can't arrest a crackhead with five dollars even though they know that crack head is going to go by crack... Only if that crack head had a 5 dollar rock and the police seen him with it... The police can't bust you for something you don't have, no matter how much they know you want it. And if some one came to my door i would deny i knew anything "must've been the last renter or something". Besides if they find it i hear you get a letter saying come on to new york city to get your package... No thanks
3. I have more of chance not getting my order it seems from the supplier that i choose but to me its worth to to stuff an envelope with 70.00 to get some g-13 seeds knowing full well that i could never see that 70.00 bucks again... All the while imagining some stoned out holland dude luaghing greedily over mounds of amercian cash and empty envelopes and empty dreams of some stoopid american guy like me and others wanting to grow some of the finest weed in the world... All the while my letter gets somehow shipped kenya and a poor kenyan opens it and becomes rich seeing as though they can live off 31 cents a day.