body language.

HoLE

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what do people think about how we communicate with body language? how close and accurate is it? i ask...because i was reading a book the other day about body language and the different things that men do around women they're interested in. but does that body language signify romantic/sexual interest? or just interest in general? because i was observing a guy i know and he does several of the things that would indicate interest, but im pretty darn sure he's not interested in me as more than a friend (so he is in a way interested in me, but on a platonic level), so i thought i'd ask what people's opinions on body language are! :D
I can tell ya right now,,,I don't think I'm gettin some tonight:sad:
 

sarah22

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hi sarah. im guessing due to your name that you have a vagina. i also deduce that you are 22. and im assuming the friend your talking about has a penis. if all this is true then even if he says its only platonic at some point he whats to introduce his trouser snake to your love tunnel. even if he denys it. and i also believe in body language. but take into account that under the influence of drugs/alcholol the message might be different to the "sober" message. anywho if your underlying question was does my mate fancy me? get drunk and find out! lol
hehe yea im a girl :D im 24 now though im actually not all that concerned with whether he likes me or not really, im just trying to learn how to read body language. and since im around my boys so often, i just read them for practise lol so i thought i'd ask how accurate of a science this is. if he does...i'll be told by someone eventually lol.
 

sarah22

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I believe in body language to a point. Stuff like you can always spot liars if you are a master of body language is BS. There are massive numbers of people that are expert at lying both with their mouths and their bodies. Salesmen, strippers, lawyers, higher level business men, good gamblers, waitresses, bartenders, men that cheat and are good at getting away with it, women that cheat and are good at getting away with it, conmen/conwomen, sociopaths...and that's just for starters. Being deceitful unfortunately is advantageous in many professions. You can learn to be absolutely believable.

My fearless advice? If you like your friend more than as just a friend...you are either going to act on it...or you are not (yeah i know that is it's raining or it's sunny weather forecasting) Are you willing to act on it?
i fully believe thats why im so skilled at lying. i have a bit of sociopath (i know its strange to have "a bit" of sociopath, but its hard to explain) going on. im incredibly believable. i can lie really really well to anyone, even people who are around me daily and who should really be able to tell when im acting differently in any way. my friends and family cannot lie to me, i notice the tiniest little changes in their behaviour. i honestly think that i could work as a special agent im so damned good sometimes...im very calculated. i dont anyone who's as calculated as i am. i calculate almost every minute move, breath and word when im around other people...and its just something i do naturally and have always done.
 
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