i haven't read any but your first post in this bro, i too have dreams like that. where ill go into my room and i will find it swarming with bugs, trying to kill them all to save my babies. my neighbor busting in the door and slamming open the closet.
ive been lucid dreaming for about 7 years now
from my experience with dreams a lot of the time you tend to dream about your worries, sometimes they manifest into something worse, or sometimes you can make it into something more to your liking (depending on what level of consciousness you are, while your in your dream state)
i don't think you have anything to worry about, accept maybe worrying a little less hehehe. dream on man.