Aussie Growers Thread

dopeonarope

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You just need to relax and move on with your life buddy, I'll be honest as soon as I realised you were still debating I stopped reading.
I'm relaxed old bean, you couldn't help trying to get the last word in though could you? I thought you stopped arguing 20 years ago but evidently that statement was as full of shit as the last one. Good for you +rep
 

iknownothink

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I'm not arguing with you or disagreeing with you lol, I'm trying to say I couldn't care. Yeah I understand people are bastards, but just saying oh don't mind me "I'm a bastard" is just stupid it makes no sense. Why not just try be a bit nicer to new people to the group ? Or if you can't resist been nice just don't bother commenting on anything they say ? Or if your just happy chatting to the same 10 odd people and piss off everyone new that comes along just keep doing what your doing I guess.
 

dopeonarope

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I'm not arguing with you or disagreeing with you lol, I'm trying to say I couldn't care. Yeah I understand people are bastards, but just saying oh don't mind me "I'm a bastard" is just stupid it makes no sense. Why not just try be a bit nicer to new people to the group ? Or if you can't resist been nice just don't bother commenting on anything they say ? Or if your just happy chatting to the same 10 odd people and piss off everyone new that comes along just keep doing what your doing I guess.
It's a qualifying statement so you understand I don't care about your feelings or opinion. Im nice to lots of people but to be nice to everyone for the sake of it is naive and pointless. I'm not the former but, often the latter (and I save my pointless activities for the weekend with people I like).

P.S I said I'm an arsehole not a bastard. My parents did it proper. They got married in a church and everything.
 

Venus55

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I guess that’s the whole allure of riu. It’s a lot freer and less moderated than most others. Which is good and bad at the same time, cos shit can get pretty crazy. Never a lack of excitement for the most part tho.

I myself go out of my way to treat others just how I want to be treated, in real life and online.

And then there’s a shitload of people who couldn’t give a rats ass who they offend or what’s said back to them.

Just life tho isn’t it.
 

Venus55

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It's a qualifying statement so you understand I don't care about your feelings or opinion. Im nice to lots of people but to be nice to everyone for the sake of it is naive and pointless. I'm not the former but, often the latter (and I save my pointless activities for the weekend with people I like).

P.S I said I'm an arsehole not a bastard. My parents did it proper. They got married in a church and everything.
I don’t think anyone truly uses bastard in that sense anymore do they? A piece of paper is exactly that, a piece of paper. Js
 

dopeonarope

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I guess that’s the whole allure of riu. It’s a lot freer and less moderated than most others. Which is good and bad at the same time, cos shit can get pretty crazy. Never a lack of excitement for the most part tho.

I myself go out of my way to treat others just how I want to be treated, in real life and online.

And then there’s a shitload of people who couldn’t give a rats ass who they offend or what’s said back to them.

Just life tho isn’t it.
I agree with that, I suppose the only problem I have is that on one hand people want to have an opinion and if others don't agree with it then they shouldn't say anything so as not to be a big meanie and be unwelcoming. Opinions are fine but should be framed as such and if you're not informed enough or a wee bit too spineless to defend your position then you have no credibility and no valid standpoint.
 

OzCocoLoco

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Saying you're correcting others implies you're right when in fact you have no idea just spouting opinion as fact. Whether you're right or wrong its ok, just preface it with "I have no idea what I'm talking about but.. <insert opinion here>".

There you go, just copy/paste the bit between the quotes and you're golden
Be careful you might hurt her feelings
 

Venus55

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I agree with that, I suppose the only problem I have is that on one hand people want to have an opinion and if others don't agree with it then they shouldn't say anything so as not to be a big meanie and be unwelcoming. Opinions are fine but should be framed as such and if you're not informed enough or a wee bit too spineless to defend your position then you have no credibility and no valid standpoint.
I don’t think opinions are the issue. It’s the insults that get thrown around when others may not agree or inject their own.

That’s what amazes me the most. The amount of people who are completely unable to have a debate without calling the other person every name under the sun. Like seriously why the fuck is that?

If I don’t agree with someone I might say shit like “you’ve lost the fucken plot buddy” but never you’ve lost the fucken plot “u dumb cunt”. Know what I mean?
 

OzCocoLoco

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Oh gees, you do realise i was referring to people correcting me lol, ha ha far out guys if you guys don't want any new members to come and chat just say so. I just came here to talk with fellow growers but if you all want to be dicks I'll just go to another forum.. I honestly couldn't care. I gave up arguing with people about 20 years back.
Why you mad bro ?
 
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