A psychonaut with an unenlightened significant other?

Sr. Verde · Apr 6, 2011

Are any else of you in this situation? Any thoughts? :joint:

I find it hard to connect on some levels... How can you truly connect with someone, when they have not seen the world as you have seen?

Then again, who's to say ones lack of drug use should make them lack in character?

I've been toying with this in my head.

She just doesn't see time - or life as I do... She doesn't understand how important certain things are to me.

She will never probably eat any psychoactive substance.. So this isn't something that will change.

Thoughts, fellow psychonauts? :joint:

Unnk · Apr 6, 2011

sir i know what its like and if she at least smokes there is a chance tthat she can be introduced to it

my fiance was a mind washed christian reform who was terrified of pot now she comes to every session

The Cryptkeeper · Apr 6, 2011

Yah. Just about every chick I've been with fits that description. It's females in general.

Not their lack of psychedelic experience. A person doesn't need to take a psychedelic be of good character whatsoever.

rusmokingyet · Apr 6, 2011

if youve shared your wisdom, and they either couldnt comprehend or relate, just keep it to yourself

Unnk · Apr 6, 2011

for sure crypt but it is entirely possible for her to want to try it eventually people change their priorities over time i guess its all good if she isnt harking on you to not do this and not do that

then thats a problem a BIG CONTROLL problem wich seems like 80 percent of my past relationships have had problems with

girls like controll lots of it

Sr. Verde · Apr 6, 2011

rusmokingyet said:
if youve shared your wisdom, and they either couldnt comprehend or relate, just keep it to yourself

Yeah couldn't comprehend anything I tried to explain..

Doesn't smoke at all, has before, doesn't like it.

This is like 5 week cured bud, out of a volcano she doesn't like :lol:

Unnk · Apr 6, 2011

probably took her by the cajones though happened to my girl 3 week cured sharksbreath we were out side and she had to have me hold her in her bed cause she was freaking so hard lol

NP88 · Apr 6, 2011

I've decided that i will never date a girl that wants to control my substance use. I plan on being alone for quite some time, because it is very hard to find a girl that is open minded when it comes to drugs.

It seems the ones that are open minded are either sluts or addicts.

My ex was always trying to get me to quit smoking weed, and she threatened to break up if I ever took any other drug. Needless to say, I resented her for trying to control me, and she resented me for disobeying her wishes.

The Cryptkeeper · Apr 6, 2011

Substance use isn't a factor in my interest in a woman. It's her intelligence, her understanding, that drugs are not evil. That's a part of it. She does not need to do ANY drug. She just has to accept the fact that there isn't anything wrong with a substance. There is very much wrong with humans.

Unnk · Apr 6, 2011

well put crypt

NP88 · Apr 6, 2011

I don't need a girl to drug with. Just one that won't ruin my trip if I think what she will think about me tripping.

That happened with my ex. I had a great trip going, then she called me. I was too messed up to hold a conversation, so I Hung up. Then I was afraid she was gonna come over. I had my friend guard the door for a few hours.

After we broke up, I've never felt vulnerable during a trip

Puffer Fish · Apr 6, 2011

Sr. Verde said:
Yeah couldn't comprehend anything I tried to explain..

Doesn't smoke at all, has before, doesn't like it.

This is like 5 week cured bud, out of a volcano she doesn't like

You sir are in a relationship with a shelf life .... I hope you are not married .... It will never last .... you comprehension of Universe is/differs from Hers to an extreme. If you are past a ten strip ... and she does not even smoke .... sooner or later you will get bored of each other and drift. Perhaps your relationship is about the journey ?

The Cryptkeeper said:
Substance use isn't a factor in my interest in a woman. It's her intelligence, her understanding, that drugs are not evil. That's a part of it. She does not need to do ANY drug. She just has to accept the fact that there isn't anything wrong with a substance. There is very much wrong with humans.

You are in alpha position in your relationships. You do not seek companionship through psychological attachment ... in relationships of this nature. You must go through many females. They are hard to keep under such conditions ... unless they are drug addicts or dependent. If you found one.
You are One lucky Man !

Hallucinogens and Monogamy R incompatible.

Sgt. Floyd · Apr 6, 2011

The Cryptkeeper said:
Substance use isn't a factor in my interest in a woman. It's her intelligence, her understanding, that drugs are not evil. That's a part of it. She does not need to do ANY drug. She just has to accept the fact that there isn't anything wrong with a substance. There is very much wrong with humans.

This is my wife. It took her some time but she finally realized it. It goes beyond just substance use to general open mindedness. I couldn't see being with anyone for a long time that closes off all sorts of possibilities.

Sr. Verde · Apr 6, 2011

Puffer Fish said:
You sir are in a relationship with a shelf life .... I hope you are not married .... It will never last .... you comprehension of Universe is/differs from Hers to an extreme. If you are past a ten strip ... and she does not even smoke .... sooner or later you will get bored of each other and drift. Perhaps your relationship is about the journey ?

You understand 101% my friend.

Puffer Fish · Apr 6, 2011

Dude ... stop changing the OP's topic of conversation !!

:shock:

Sr. Verde · Apr 6, 2011

LOL i get yelled at for derailing my OWN threads :lol:

The Cryptkeeper · Apr 6, 2011

What's your favorite kind of cheese?

Puffer Fish · Apr 6, 2011

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mescalinebandit420 · Apr 6, 2011

i have a similar problem. ive been with my girl for about 3 months now and she sees how much i care about tripping and really wants to try it with me. keep in mind,before we got together, she hadnt done more than get drunk a couple times and maybe high a time or two. what should i start her with? fluff, nexus, aborts?

ndangerspecimen101 · Apr 7, 2011

Sr. Verde said:
Are any else of you in this situation? Any thoughts?

I find it hard to connect on some levels... How can you truly connect with someone, when they have not seen the world as you have seen?

Then again, who's to say ones lack of drug use should make them lack in character?

I've been toying with this in my head.

She just doesn't see time - or life as I do... She doesn't understand how important certain things are to me.

She will never probably eat any psychoactive substance.. So this isn't something that will change.

Thoughts, fellow psychonauts?

In due time when she see's it right, she will eat of the fruit and see that it's good

No

But serious do not force a psychedelic experience upon someone who is constantly apprehensive about shuffling the time frame of thought in there head. Once you make it clear that you want them to partake they'll know the significance inertly and out of the blue moon they will do it. It's funny how these things work.... it doesn't mean she's not the right one for you

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