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Can someone please help me tell if this plant is male or female? I started with 3 plants as I was told but 2 of them died in replanting

This is the only one left and it's starting to get large but I don't even know if it is female. I hope it is! Please help. Is it too soon to tell? I have been growing this plant outdoors for quite some time and it's not that large. We had some cool weather and it didn't do anything for quite some time. What can I do to ensure things go well if it is female? Any tips would be greatly appreciated. I have never grown a plant before. I hope it hasn't all been a waste.
I looked at the previous posts and I don't see balls. there do look like some white hairs at the way top but i can't get a good picture because I only have a camera phone and it sucks. Could it be femlae? I always assumed it would end up a male. (didn't want to expect much)