done man, as of 20 mins ago. it was mals, them things were popping up all over. and the ones that were there got larger through out the day. i wish i had pics of it right before i cut it.
my other 2 are looking female ish, their the 2 smaller ones. the other white widow (in the 2.5 gal black bucket) has went through hell, the damn thing was completely brown, stem leaves and all. and now its lookin like it might be female... im a little iffy on the whole stress = male/hermie theory.