Sex is overrated!

[Venus55]

That's it, I just think sex is good but not as good as today's culture has us believe. Often times, everyday tasks such as eating, going to the bathroom, taking a shower, smoking ganja, participating in a good conversation or doing your duties well, can be as pleasurable, if not more.

What do you think?

I think that “today’s culture” has nothing to do with it and what you’re actually experiencing during sex has everything to do with it. If ur honestly comparing “doing your duties well” to be as pleasurable if not more than having sex then it sounds like u haven’t actually had good sex yet..

 

[New Age United]

I don't think so.


I've been monogamous to the same woman for almost 20 years. All that time with the same person and stillsgood sex life. I wouldn't compare sex to anything but sex. I can tell you to have a long and happy relationship aa good. sex life is needed. Frequency is subjective.

I can also see how sex is rated being subjective. Libido. I'm sure some think of sex more than others.

I get what you are saying though. At times we takes breaks. A break can lead to better sex.

Edit. I'm high. Took like ten minutes to type that.

Lol on the last statement. Ya bro it is a very rare occurrence but the very few seem to be content with each other after a long relationship, but surely you don't fuck every single day and still enjoy it after 20 years. That's rhetoric you don't have to respond lol!!!

 

[Venus55]

The more you have sex the more jaded it becomes, you should know that you're the man on the block right. Wdyt that love never lasts, its bc the sex gets boring plain and simple.

You’re right sex with “the same person” over years and years can become boring. It can be debated whether we as human beings are genetically designed to be monogamous or polyamorous. So far scientific studies are finding that some of us are and some of us aren’t.
And that’s a pretty bold statement to say “love never lasts” isn’t it?
Good sex, amazing sex, is incomparable to good conversation or completing daily chores etc.
Haha someone’s not doing something right if that’s the case

 

[New Age United]

You’re right sex with “the same person” over years and years can become boring. It can be debated whether we as human beings are genetically designed to be monogamous or polyamorous. So far scientific studies are finding that some of us are and some of us aren’t.
And that’s a pretty bold statement to say “love never lasts” isn’t it?
Good sex, amazing sex, is incomparable to good conversation or completing daily chores etc.
Haha someone’s not doing something right if that’s the case

And I am polyamorous, I think the whole idea of monogamy is creepy, I see people checking each others texts and fb messages, jealousy just doesn't make sense to me, I guess people would rather save face and be "seen" as civil than just be free and love freely.

 

[BigHornBuds]

I chase my ol lady around every day.
Not saying I get it everyday, but I try .

But my girl is a dime n she keep looking better year after year n I keep getting older n well not better looking .

 

[BigHornBuds]

And I am polyamorous, I think the whole idea of monogamy is creepy, I see people checking each others texts and fb messages, jealousy just doesn't make sense to me, I guess people would rather save face and be "seen" as civil than just be free and love freely.

Verity is the spice of life .

 

[whitebb2727]

I chase my ol lady around every day.
Not saying I get it everyday, but I try .

But my girl is a dime n she keep looking better year after year n I keep getting older n well not better looking .

To me sex gets better the more you know someone.

 

[whitebb2727]

Lol on the last statement. Ya bro it is a very rare occurrence but the very few seem to be content with each other after a long relationship, but surely you don't fuck every single day and still enjoy it after 20 years. That's rhetoric you don't have to respond lol!!!

Not daily but still several times a week.

 

[persian.toker]

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Unfortunately not. Taking a T-break.

 

[persian.toker]

No.

Unless youre an incel and its a rare experience, i could see how that view would makes ones day brighter.

But no.

Sex is one if not, the only purely natural pleasure from both willing counterparts, not many things in life put you at a connection on such a deep level.

Unless ofcourse were just talking about frivolous, meaningless sex between 2 individuals whom are just in the mood. But thats still very enjoyable to most.

Hard to compare sex to anything really.

Not an incel, just some random sandni**er having doubts.

On sex being one of the most if not the only natural cooperative acts of pleasure, saying that makes you sound like you have never jammed with a band (purely natural, people have been doing it for millennia) or played a team sport.

There's something vicious about the urge to mate; it comes on strong and takes over you, then you have a few very good seconds and it leaves you hollow. It's bad for your health and reduces creativity (not the chase but the sex itself.) Sex is in a way an urge to create.

It is said that if lions had a god it would be a supreme hunter, if elephants did, it would be omni-powerful, there's a reason why the human gods are creators, the need to create is the deepest urge we have. Build something awe inspiring that outlasts you, with your hands, and then talk to me abt how sharing bodily fuilds is the best feeling ever.

 

[persian.toker]

You guys arent doing it right or somwthing idk. Imagine only eating as often as you have sex, based on my asumptions youd starve lol.

You cant compare sex to eating breakfast wtf.

Looks like you've never had propper breakfast

 

[persian.toker]

Agree 100% it's just not as good as your mind makes it out to be, the drive for sex feels better than the sex itself, eating is much more pleasurable and fulfilling imo.

Exactly my point but more eloquently put.

 

[persian.toker]

Imagine valuing the very action that concieved and birthed you at no more than "doing your duties well" or "eating"
lmao yall are crazy

What action? My dad not pulling out in time to avoid me? Nah I value that action very much. That was the first match I won against my dad

 

[Mad Hamish]

What a stupid thread driven by somebodys feelings of inadequacy damn need a tissue?

 

[persian.toker]

I think that “today’s culture” has nothing to do with it and what you’re actually experiencing during sex has everything to do with it. If ur honestly comparing “doing your duties well” to be as pleasurable if not more than having sex then it sounds like u haven’t actually had good sex yet..

it is unlikely that I haven't had good sex. I have had more sex than I intended to in my life. and what I feel during, is that sex is good, but afterwards I compare it to other feelings I've had and I come to the aforementioned conclusion. the first time I played an instrument (not gonna say what in order to ensure anonymity) in front of a big audience (5000 people) and I rocked the F out of my solos, that was doing my duty well; can you honestly tell me the quickie I had in the after-party felt better than the show itself?!

 

[persian.toker]

What a stupid thread driven by somebodys feelings of inadequacy damn need a tissue?

Daaamn dude chill. I'm just speaking my mind here. and just so you know, I am quite competent in pleasing my girls, it's just that I don't feel like sex is the best. it's pretty good though!

 

[persian.toker]

Sex is amazing and I'd give up smoking weed before I ever gave up on sex. I'm particularly fond of Persian rugs, @persian.toker

thanks for sharing man. don't give up weed, sex feels better with it. and if you like Persian rugs, try having sex on a few rugs stacked on top of each other, high off your tits on Hash (that's the old school Persian way). cheers man

 

[persian.toker]

You need to get a PAWG

I have, quite a few. they;re not overrated IMO, sex is.

 

[persian.toker]

Sex is underrated if you know what you're doing.

The "know what to do" argument is just played out man. don't mean to undermine your sentiment but that's how I see it. what's there to know? you start with a warm-up, get going, find each other's rhythm and sync, say some silly shit you don't mean and remember to pull out.

 

[persian.toker]

You aren't doing it right then.

you sure mate?