You're Not Horny, But Your Partner Is, What Do You Do?

How do you personally handle this situation? I'm curious. I'd also love to hear the opposite responses, you're super horny but your partner isn't, then what do you do in that case?

Yes, this just happened to me. I don't think I handled it very well... Just sat there and said "oh it's OK, I understand..." wen't to sleep, woke up this morning, came home and handled it myself... sad, I know.

when my wife isn't in the mood and i am i just get her to give me some head.

LOL! Smoke some weed. Always gets me in the mood!
If the roles should be reversed... I would try and coerce her into smoking some too!
But thats just me :s

Sativa.... Must be a good Sativa!

jerk a load on her while she's asleep and she'll think twice about turning you down hahahaha

i was married to a girl that was bi polar and she lost her sex drive. long story short it ended in divorce. no sex no marriage!

kevin said:

when my wife isn't in the mood and i am i just get her to give me some head.

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I wish my girl was as kind as your wife. The bitching never ends if I ask for a blowjob...

dyzel said:

LOL! Smoke some weed. Always gets me in the mood!
If the roles should be reversed... I would try and coerce her into smoking some too!
But thats just me :s

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I agree, weed is a great aphrodisiac it seems!

donkey.420 said:

jerk a load on her while she's asleep and she'll think twice about turning you down hahahaha

i was married to a girl that was bi polar and she lost her sex drive. long story short it ended in divorce. no sex no marriage!

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How long did you wait before it started affecting things substantially?

Happens to me all the time, as I myself have a few depression issues I struggle with, doesn't really affect too much but it has a toll on my sexdrive, I just remind myself I'm a man and my dick has a head of its own, so I man up, he stands up and we go to work, but I'm a people pleaser lol

i smoke weed and make her feel bad

Stick it in her ear when she's asleep...

LOL just read this halarious! but obviously your situation isnt padawan , very serious indeed. Why dont you find out what her fetishes are? haha

I stick it in her ass. So then she understands its time to put out or get out.

it affected the relationship immediately man. i get moody as hell without sex

Padawanbater2 said:

How do you personally handle this situation? I'm curious. I'd also love to hear the opposite responses, you're super horny but your partner isn't, then what do you do in that case?

Yes, this just happened to me. I don't think I handled it very well... Just sat there and said "oh it's OK, I understand..." wen't to sleep, woke up this morning, came home and handled it myself... sad, I know.

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i'm speaking with 25 years experience to the same girl that both of you will have times when you just plain off don't want to be fucked with. but she's never cut me off for over a week or so and i know when it happens it's always because she's over thinking a situation and stresses out. so i try to get her involved in something other than work. take her out on a simple date to the ice cream store. hope this helps

p.s. if that doesn't work then go for the blow job

It is bound to happen. I usually try to give her a "massage" but she is pretty hip to it now... she turns down massages lol

As long as you are still banging fairly regularly it's straight!

if the homework isnt being done.....time to goto the library..lol
thats but like rucca if you still hit it regularly its straight
or when she is in the mood tie her ass down to the bed and go watch a movie
come back and go to sleep.. she needs to learn when it stands she must bow

You're Not Horny, But Your Partner Is, What Do You Do?

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I don't compute this question, what do you mean, you're not horny?

Originally Posted by kevin
when my wife isn't in the mood and i am i just get her to give me some head.
I wish my girl was as kind as your wife. The bitching never ends if I ask for a blowjob...


Ummm you sir are pussy whipped

snap!!!! .

Remember to take your time ! If I am not in the mood it usually means that my partner has not done his homework on foreplay. Rubbing my feet, kissing my neck and shoulders, biting my nipples will usually get me going every time. Oh, and I left out the most important part....smoke some good weed first!!! On the other side of the equation, there is almost nothing that hurts my feelings more than to be turned down by my partner, and he won't even let me touch his nipples! LOL Luckily that doesn't happen very often...

damn cindsid im in ;love ha ha