you cant pick seeds out untill the end of flowering, just the way it is..... they develop extremely fast closer to the end of the season (like, last 2 1/2 weeks). atleast, thats when there large enough that you can recognize "oh, thats a seed". if there little sacks then its a hermie.
found what i was looking for.........
can you see the seeds? is this what it was like?
or was it like this.........
top is a seeded female, and the bottom is a pure male.
a hermi has the little white hairs of a female and the balls of a male. they basically pollinate themselves.