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halfloaf

halfloaf

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about 21 month ago my dad whent into hospital with breathing difficultys he suferd from emphysema it was thursday so iwhent up to the hospital to see him he seemed fine by friday afternoon i gets a call your father has goten critical so i get up he is unconscious finding it hard to breath he was on his last legs so to speak

sat with him till sunday mornig it must have been about 4am i was driffting in and out of sleep but something made me wake up and look at my dad
his breathing was getting shalower and shalower then he stoped man that was the first time i had seen a dead body never mined watch somone pass the emoions that whent through me at that time it was like waves going over me i am glad i was there for him i would do it agian as no one should pass away alone .

well what i am asking could or have you been there for somone?








you are alwys with me dad xxxxxx
 
Josh3235

Josh3235

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I'm very sorry. But I had to kinda do that when my 5 year old cousin passed away from cancer, they kept him in a cooling bed, or something like that to preserve the body for a few days so you can be with him for the last time. It was very sad having to look at him. He almost looked like a doll, it was really hard to look for long.
 
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infinitihigh

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My grandma was getting a kidney stone removed at the age of 91 and she is in pain everyday. So I had to translate for her and stay with her at the hospital for 3 days I was so sad telling my grandma that she will most likely not survive because she didnt do a blood transfusion due to her beliefs. But she is a survivor the doctors got the 1in stone out. Stay strong you are a great person for being with your dad
 
halfloaf

halfloaf

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infinitihigh said:
My grandma was getting a kidney stone removed at the age of 91 and she is in pain everyday. So I had to translate for her and stay with her at the hospital for 3 days I was so sad telling my grandma that she will most likely not survive because she didnt do a blood transfusion due to her beliefs. But she is a survivor the doctors got the 1in stone out. Stay strong you are a great person for being with your dad
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thanx 91 hope i see that my step son had kidney stones about tree years ago was in his bed for about 4 days in pane got up one morning whent to the toilet then came through asked me to have a look in the bowl man it was just blood they seem real bad things to have hope your grannys alright now she must be hard as nails 1in stone
 
halfloaf

halfloaf

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Josh3235 said:
I'm very sorry. But I had to kinda do that when my 5 year old cousin passed away from cancer, they kept him in a cooling bed, or something like that to preserve the body for a few days so you can be with him for the last time. It was very sad having to look at him. He almost looked like a doll, it was really hard to look for long.
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children are the hardest thing to see pasing last year my step son and his gf lost theyer little girl she was only 11 hours old when they are lying there they look well not real asif like you said doll like its hard thing to go through i still get bad dreams about my dad but i just think of the people i have with me
we have just got to be strong
 
PrivateEye6

PrivateEye6

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My dad had respiratory problems due to his job as a painter and had an operation on one of his lungs, I knew he would be ok but when i got to thinking what i would do if he passed i couldn't help to get teary eyed.
Stay positive above all man
 
Stonedsamurai

Stonedsamurai

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Trust me I know how it feels. My father passed when I was 16 but he was an alcoholic and died from internal bleeding, wasn't very peaceful sitting next to him in his last moments.
 
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