sarah22
Well-Known Member
i just had the worst night ever. im just wondering if anyone has any advice for me...or any feedback. well...heres the story...its gonna be a long one...
i have (well...had) a friend that i've known and been friends with since the 9th grade. she was family to me. her boys call me auntie sarah. well i really needed a fun night out so last night her and i and 2 of her friends went to one of the bars here. the night was a total blast...honestly it was one of the most fun nights i have ever had...until the end of the night. theres these guys that they met at this bar 2 weeks ago, and they were there that night too hangin out with us...well at the end of the night the guys invited us back to a hotel room they were staying at to have some drinks. now...i know what you're all thinking, its my own fault i should have known what the hotel room would mean...but this is not the first time we have partied in a hotel room with guys...and its not the first time we've left the bar with guys either...we always just hang out and have some drinks and shoot the shit...its just a fun way to unwind at the end of the night. and i also want to mention at this point...everyone here knows that im still a virgin, and that i have some mental problems...and she knows very well how i am...because she was one of my best friends. and she was acting the whole time like we were just gonna hang out with these guys and that nothing was gonna happen. well...in the room things started getting a little sexual...she was laying there on the bed with one of the guys...he was in his underwear...and her one friend was laying on the bed next to her with another one of the guys. and im in there trying to tell her not to do this shit...not to do something stupid...and then we talked in the living room. and at the start of the night we agreed not to babysit each other so we could just let loose and have a good time. but i was under the impression that we were to still use common sense. i was having some fun too...i have my nipples pierced and im not shy about them, and when people ask to see im ok with showing them, and the guys wanted to see, so i showed them and we were talkin about piercings...so apparently by me doing this im just as skanky as the rest of them. HA. well...i chose to leave the hotel room and go home before the psychotic episode kicked in. i didnt feel like going to jail. and when i got home i sent her a text message saying "please dont do anything stupid." and i got one back from one of her friends telling me "shes fucking him." so i sent one back saying "tell her im pissed." and the reply was "(the one other chick) is getting it on with this one guy, and (my friend) is getting it on with one guy, and im getting it on with so and so, leave us alone." so i called her cell phone. and i lost it. i was livid. now...i realize that shes a grown woman able to make her own choices...but she has 2 young boys, both from different dads...and i really thought she had more brains than this. not only that but i felt so uncomfortable at the room...becuase sexuality in my face like that makes me very uncomfortable. which she knows. i cannot believe that she put me in that position. if she knew the night was gonna go this way...why even invite me out? and why get me to go to the hotel with them? she could have pulled me aside and said...hey this is whats gonna happen here tonight...u might wanna go home cuz u might get uncomfortable...but she didnt, and she doesnt even care that she hurt me. am i not supposed to care about my friends? im protective...i didnt wanna see her do something stupid...i was trying to look out for her...am i wrong? please help me...i dont know what to do...i never want to see her or talk to her again...i dont need friends like that...
i have (well...had) a friend that i've known and been friends with since the 9th grade. she was family to me. her boys call me auntie sarah. well i really needed a fun night out so last night her and i and 2 of her friends went to one of the bars here. the night was a total blast...honestly it was one of the most fun nights i have ever had...until the end of the night. theres these guys that they met at this bar 2 weeks ago, and they were there that night too hangin out with us...well at the end of the night the guys invited us back to a hotel room they were staying at to have some drinks. now...i know what you're all thinking, its my own fault i should have known what the hotel room would mean...but this is not the first time we have partied in a hotel room with guys...and its not the first time we've left the bar with guys either...we always just hang out and have some drinks and shoot the shit...its just a fun way to unwind at the end of the night. and i also want to mention at this point...everyone here knows that im still a virgin, and that i have some mental problems...and she knows very well how i am...because she was one of my best friends. and she was acting the whole time like we were just gonna hang out with these guys and that nothing was gonna happen. well...in the room things started getting a little sexual...she was laying there on the bed with one of the guys...he was in his underwear...and her one friend was laying on the bed next to her with another one of the guys. and im in there trying to tell her not to do this shit...not to do something stupid...and then we talked in the living room. and at the start of the night we agreed not to babysit each other so we could just let loose and have a good time. but i was under the impression that we were to still use common sense. i was having some fun too...i have my nipples pierced and im not shy about them, and when people ask to see im ok with showing them, and the guys wanted to see, so i showed them and we were talkin about piercings...so apparently by me doing this im just as skanky as the rest of them. HA. well...i chose to leave the hotel room and go home before the psychotic episode kicked in. i didnt feel like going to jail. and when i got home i sent her a text message saying "please dont do anything stupid." and i got one back from one of her friends telling me "shes fucking him." so i sent one back saying "tell her im pissed." and the reply was "(the one other chick) is getting it on with this one guy, and (my friend) is getting it on with one guy, and im getting it on with so and so, leave us alone." so i called her cell phone. and i lost it. i was livid. now...i realize that shes a grown woman able to make her own choices...but she has 2 young boys, both from different dads...and i really thought she had more brains than this. not only that but i felt so uncomfortable at the room...becuase sexuality in my face like that makes me very uncomfortable. which she knows. i cannot believe that she put me in that position. if she knew the night was gonna go this way...why even invite me out? and why get me to go to the hotel with them? she could have pulled me aside and said...hey this is whats gonna happen here tonight...u might wanna go home cuz u might get uncomfortable...but she didnt, and she doesnt even care that she hurt me. am i not supposed to care about my friends? im protective...i didnt wanna see her do something stupid...i was trying to look out for her...am i wrong? please help me...i dont know what to do...i never want to see her or talk to her again...i dont need friends like that...