why do "nice guys" finish last?

thatboygood · Sep 4, 2008

Any theories? Why is it that women never go for nice guys... or dump one 2 years into a seemingly healthy relationship for no apparent reason... but that's neither here nor there. Women say they want a nice guy... or "where are all the nice guys" but they go for the douche bag tools and bitch and complain that they are treated like shit. what the hell..

Bookworm · Sep 4, 2008

welcome to my world. I buy them nice things, treat them well, show up on time, hold open doors, then they go and hook up with the biggest douchebag in town. I cannot figure this shit out.

thatboygood · Sep 4, 2008

Bookworm said:
welcome to my world. I buy them nice things, treat them well, show up on time, hold open doors, then they go and hook up with the biggest douchebag in town. I cannot figure this shit out.

i don't like you world. This is a bunch of bullshit. Damned if you do, damned if you don't. Everyone is destined to be alone.... apparently. The people that stay together are secretly miserable but complacent..

tallanasty · Sep 4, 2008

my theory is that most women are hoes that just wanna get crazy so if you dont do crazy shit and give em stuff to cry about they just gonna get bored and not care.

Bookworm · Sep 4, 2008

seriously. I can't wait to move out of here and get to college. Fuck high school bitches, I'm going for girls with a future who understand that a guy with a future is better for you than a guy with no job and a studded leather jacket

thatboygood · Sep 4, 2008

Bookworm said:
seriously. I can't wait to move out of here and get to college. Fuck high school bitches, I'm going for girls with a future who understand that a guy with a future is better for you than a guy with no job and a studded leather jacket

I hate to break it to you... but college is no better. Its just high school bitches that are now in college.

thatboygood · Sep 4, 2008

tallanasty said:
my theory is that most women are hoes that just wanna get crazy so if you dont do crazy shit and give em stuff to cry about they just gonna get bored and not care.

No problems getting crazy. I'm no stiff, but I give a good stiff.

Bookworm · Sep 4, 2008

tallanasty said:
my theory is that most women are hoes that just wanna get crazy so if you dont do crazy shit and give em stuff to cry about they just gonna get bored and not care.

he's got a good point, a girl i was with left me for a guy that had her crying her eyes out and throwing up from stress every weekend, he acted out a rape fantasy on her where she had to play the part of a young child, and made her pay for his gas money even though he had a job and she didn't. and she stayed with him more than twice as long as me, even though I was nothing but nice and kind to her.

makes me want to go out and break jaws.

thatboygood · Sep 4, 2008

Bookworm said:
he's got a good point, a girl i was with left me for a guy that had her crying her eyes out and throwing up from stress every weekend, he acted out a rape fantasy on her where she had to play the part of a young child, and made her pay for his gas money even though he had a job and she didn't. and she stayed with him more than twice as long as me, even though I was nothing but nice and kind to her.

makes me want to go out and break jaws.

You wouldn't want to be with a crazy bitch like that anyway (no offense..)...I'm not changing for any bitch. I'm a good dude the way I am. If i need to commit a misdemeanor every now to keep her excited, then fuck her.

tebor · Sep 5, 2008

Go watch some david Deangelo vids on youtube. He breaks it down scientifically.

People want what they cant have. Things that come easy are taken for granted

Im a dick and I never have girl probs.
When I want one to leave thats when i become a "nice guy" and treat her like a queen.

The trick is walking the line between nice guy and dick.

Yeah · Sep 5, 2008

Bookworm said:
seriously. I can't wait to move out of here and get to college. Fuck high school bitches, I'm going for girls with a future who understand that a guy with a future is better for you than a guy with no job and a studded leather jacket

Maybe you can combine the 2 and get yourself a nice studded leather jacket. How can they say no??!?! :bigjoint:

More to the point, women are evil...

That being said, not all women are like that. Sometimes sex just ruins things. And everyone loves sex, so how is one(male or female) supposed to deny their needs? I'm down with the casual sex nowadays. Unless I think the bitch is wife material, I'll just be her friend and fuck her. The emotional involvement gets me too stressed out. :wall:

Bookworm · Sep 5, 2008

ya, that bitch has some mental issues herself, but I love her still. we just had a huge fight, and I've been really rethinking our relationship. we've been hanging out a lot, but I've basically been her boyfriend without benefits because I'm still lovin that girl but she's over me. I buy her food, movie tickets, show tickets, drive her places, and basically act like her boyfriend, but without the benefits one would expect. After I told her a couple things while in a vicodin stupor that turned out to be a big mistake I got really mad at her for doing verbatim what I had said I wanted to do with her (just hold her close and be with her) right in front of me.

she bothers me for a couple hours to come see her, then she says she's at jacob's house and when I get there she's all over jacob, fucking pissed me off. I got nothing against jacob, he didn't know, it's not his fault, it's just that she can do these things right in front when she knows how I'll react. The way she's messed with my emotions has actually brought out personal rage against her. The other day I almost jumped her because of a couple snide comments, it just struck a nerve with me and I didn't care that she's a skinny girl and 35 pounds less than me, I wanted to beat her goddamn face in.

You can see why I'm not in a great mood towards women right now if what I just ranted made any sense to you.

thatboygood · Sep 5, 2008

Bookworm said:
ya, that bitch has some mental issues herself, but I love her still. we just had a huge fight, and I've been really rethinking our relationship. we've been hanging out a lot, but I've basically been her boyfriend without benefits because I'm still lovin that girl but she's over me. I buy her food, movie tickets, show tickets, drive her places, and basically act like her boyfriend, but without the benefits one would expect. After I told her a couple things while in a vicodin stupor that turned out to be a big mistake I got really mad at her for doing verbatim what I had said I wanted to do with her (just hold her close and be with her) right in front of me.

she bothers me for a couple hours to come see her, then she says she's at jacob's house and when I get there she's all over jacob, fucking pissed me off. I got nothing against jacob, he didn't know, it's not his fault, it's just that she can do these things right in front when she knows how I'll react. The way she's messed with my emotions has actually brought out personal rage against her. The other day I almost jumped her because of a couple snide comments, it just struck a nerve with me and I didn't care that she's a skinny girl and 35 pounds less than me, I wanted to beat her goddamn face in.

You can see why I'm not in a great mood towards women right now if what I just ranted made any sense to you.

Best advice I can give you... Don't have anything to do with her. Don't talk to her, call her, give her rides. You are making it harder on yourself. You guys can't be friends. Aint gonna work. Break free.

Yeah · Sep 5, 2008

Bookworm said:
ya, that bitch has some mental issues herself, but I love her still. we just had a huge fight, and I've been really rethinking our relationship. we've been hanging out a lot, but I've basically been her boyfriend without benefits because I'm still lovin that girl but she's over me. I buy her food, movie tickets, show tickets, drive her places, and basically act like her boyfriend, but without the benefits one would expect. After I told her a couple things while in a vicodin stupor that turned out to be a big mistake I got really mad at her for doing verbatim what I had said I wanted to do with her (just hold her close and be with her) right in front of me.

she bothers me for a couple hours to come see her, then she says she's at jacob's house and when I get there she's all over jacob, fucking pissed me off. I got nothing against jacob, he didn't know, it's not his fault, it's just that she can do these things right in front when she knows how I'll react. The way she's messed with my emotions has actually brought out personal rage against her. The other day I almost jumped her because of a couple snide comments, it just struck a nerve with me and I didn't care that she's a skinny girl and 35 pounds less than me, I wanted to beat her goddamn face in.

You can see why I'm not in a great mood towards women right now if what I just ranted made any sense to you.

Been there. Had a girl who I was hanging out with a lot, going places with, eating dinner with her family, etc. Not really my girlfriend, but we were cool(with the benefits of course).

One night she called me and told me to come to a party, so I dropped what I was doing and went over there. She was already shitfaced and I was planning on getting to that point. So I went inside to get more beer and I see her and this dude who I hate with all my heart(just a straight... fag? for lack of a better term) fucking on the couch. Didn't see me so I closed the door and walked back outside. Later she wanted a ride home and started kissing on me and shit and I told her I wasn't interested.

Anyway, after that, I swore off any kind of emotional involvement for a while because that really kind of fucked me up. You do your thing and I'll do mine, but have some respect. If you're screwing other guys, don't mess with me in the same period of time, just as I would do the same. Some women lack courtesy.

tebor · Sep 5, 2008

Evil come to tell you that she's evil most definitely
Evil, ornery scandalous and evil most definitely
The tension is growing hotter I'd like to hold her head underwater

makinthemagic · Sep 5, 2008

To women, a nice guy is like the nerdy wimp at school. You know you can beat him up, take his lunch money, insult him in every way possible and will still be your friend after this because he has nobody else. He get no respect.

The bad boy asshole is the popular kid. He will beat you up, take your lunch money insult you and lets you know that he doesn't need your friendship because he is friends with everyone.

Women get bored being the bully to your nice guy. They are programmed to seek a challenge, which few guys provide, because they are tripping over themselves to be wimpy. Women need someone who stands up to them, tells them what to do, takes what they have and doesn't care about it. I like to give them a black eye or two and knock out a few teeth for added effect. :bigjoint:

KushKing949 · Sep 5, 2008

i think girls get bored with guys especially when it comes to sex.......i know this is the same way for guys cuz shit i get bored with having sex with the same person after awhile but i havent found the one... theres plenty of ladies out there that need a good pokin :bigjoint:

madmaty · Sep 5, 2008

Women take time and money.

Women = time x money

Time IS money

Women = money x money = money ^ 2

Money is the root of all evil

money = sqrt(evil)
=> money^2 = evil

since women = money^2

women = evil

valuablevariable · Sep 5, 2008

Man ive got my theories but i think if i wrote them down it would come out wrong and just be labled as an idiot.
Ill say this, women are complicated, theres nothing simple about giving a woman what she wants.
A. she doesnt know exactly what she wants (generally most people dont though)
B. She knows exactly what she DOESNT want
C. She wont tell you that she doesnt like something untill months later in an argument, by then its usually taken out of context and you cant prove it different because you cant remember what really happened
D. Women have several "woman" cards they can play
E. Women will find something you once did, and because youve done it once before that gives them the automatic right to do it whenever they want
......

To answer your title question, nice guys finish last because they are walked all over by those who want to finish first

doobiedo · Sep 5, 2008

women are evil cus they have something that you want, pussy. never settle for one women. you be in control not the women. a women who plays head games is a waste of time no matter how good the pussy is!!!! to many damn hormones flying around every month after month... so play the field dude... :bigjoint:

....before you get played

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