What are you like growing in someones house? Why would the small sound of a fan alert people...do you not worry about smell and light a lot more?
I like box fans..I'm cheap and they're effective..20" ,3000cfm 20bucks or less...a lot of people around here have them in widows too
I like box fans too, I like them even more when sometimes I can grab one in Salvation Army.
The trick to running a fan quietly is to use largest diameter you can, and slow it down with voltage regulator, it will still move lots of air due to its larger diameter, but with very little noise.