Never thought I would have to declare a choice until yesterday. While in the midst of a heated discussion, not about weed, my wife of 20+ years, asks in anger " Your always stoned. I don't understand, why?" Now after 20 plus years of hearing "I like you when your stoned because it helps with your anger issues" I realize she is using this lame statement and using it as a tool to get under my skin. Sometimes you just have to put your foot down. My response to her was calm and focused. While looking her in the eye I said " Understand this, I will smoke when ever and as often as I please and YOU WILL NOT be a deciding factor". Rarely have I exercised this type of declaration in our relationship. She knows, that when the "STORM" calms to clarify a point so there can be NO misunderstanding, that it is final and no need to continue. Our squabble was settled without further reference to my vices. I make no threats and she knows it. The door opens the same way for her to leave as it did when she used it to enter my world. I am still in love with my wife and my world would suck and it would cost a fortune if she left me but sometimes a line must be drawn and consequences must be paid when it is crossed. PS: what a stupid thread. if you have to choose your wasting time.