UUggghhh!! A Rant.

srh88

srh88

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fuck her... tell her to go back to wherever she moved closer from, she cant be fucking with your son. when your son gets a little older and more aware of like everything, he'll be callin her a grimy bitch too. also soon he'll start catching her in all her lies and realizing whenever she takes him out and shit your the one paying for it. for now if i were you, just please the courts then leave the decision up to you son and the courts will back you 100%
 
olylifter420

olylifter420

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This sounds a lot like my brothers plan...





budlover13 said:
Most definitely don't have any GOOD feelings toward her and sure as hell don't feel sorry for how we've dealt with her.

There IS a part of me that is sad for her because i don't think she really realizes what she's doing in pushing my son away. But, that's been the plan since she left. That's why i've given her so much leeway. At least this way i can't be blamed for keeping him from seeing his mom.
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kizphilly

kizphilly

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that sucks but it could be worse i got a 5 year old daughter i never seen atleast you have your son with you you know
 
FresnoFarmer

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I would slip some dissolved crystal meth in her drink and get full custody of my son if I were you......but that's just me :)
 
Urca

Urca

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kizphilly said:
that sucks but it could be worse i got a 5 year old daughter i never seen atleast you have your son with you you know
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if you have a daughter you never seen you should try to get to know her before she grows up thinking her dad never knew about her or cared
 
Urca

Urca

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well if he knows about her now he should try to at least be there in some fashion...
 
halfloaf

halfloaf

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Man you have it bad but you sayed he is almost 13 treat him like he is 13 if you tell him how it is then shit he should be old enuf to understand?

My wifes ex is a dick suking asshole when me and the wife first got together her yongest son was 6 he seen his father about once a month when he could give a fuk that is.

Our son well my step son was about 11 he was going into high school we had alot of bills to pay and not alot of money as i was the only one working and it was part time.
He needed trainers for school so we asked his father to get him them so when son whent to see his father he took him to a charity shop and got him the mankyist pair of trainers you could find not only that they were 2 sizes to big.
I had to borrow ££ from my parents to get him trainers.

When he was almost 14 he got the opertunity to go to France to visit the trenches and what not ww1 it was about £400 for him to go we asked his father to pay half as he was working and claiming dole money so he was better of than us he ended up paying only £10 to it so i had to work over time a lot of over time to pay for it.
That was when he relized his father was a deadbeat.

what i am saying is just stick with it he will understand the his mother is a deadbeat.
 
Stillbuzzin

Stillbuzzin

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budlover13 said:
Just had to rant about my ex who took my son on a date with her Sancho. Not the guy she cheated on me with and moved in with, but the guy who she is cheating on HIM with.

She bought him a Ripstick for Christmas 2 years ago and now wants it back at her place. (i have primary custody.)

She is entitled (via court order) to one weekend a month and all 3 day holidays except President's Day and Labor Day. That agreement was made when she was living 300 miles away and she has since moved closer within 20 miles (as soon as i remarried and her boyfriend decided to move back up here where he was raised.) She now enjoys (via my son's request) every other weekend and the same holidays. NOW she wants EVERY weekend and ALL holidays.

She refuses to buy him clothes for his weekend (and half the summer) visits because she says he'll just outgrow them. She lies to him about a LOT and plays mental games with him (remember, he's just turning 13 in a couple months). She lays guilt trips on him and is pretty much a cunt imo. i DON'T use that term lightly.

She left a week before his 6th b-day and did so by dropping him off at school and telling him she wouldn't be home when he got out. The story could go on and on but i just needed to vent.

Thanks guys.
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I truly feel for you. But I also agree you need to let your son come first as you are doing.
 
budlover13

budlover13

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srh88 said:
fuck her... tell her to go back to wherever she moved closer from, she cant be fucking with your son. when your son gets a little older and more aware of like everything, he'll be callin her a grimy bitch too. also soon he'll start catching her in all her lies and realizing whenever she takes him out and shit your the one paying for it. for now if i were you, just please the courts then leave the decision up to you son and the courts will back you 100%
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That's what i've done, for the most part, since she left (letting him make his own decision as to seeing her and how much). SHE says i'm putting him in the middle. i say i'm giving him a voice in the matter.
 
budlover13

budlover13

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kizphilly said:
that sucks but it could be worse i got a 5 year old daughter i never seen atleast you have your son with you you know
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It was never an option when she left and she knew it. She had left 6 previous times and the first couple she took our son with her. We......discussed it and her story is that she left him because i was better able to provide for him. Whatever's clever but, yes, i got to keep him. She got the furniture and car outta the deal.
 
budlover13

budlover13

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FresnoFarmer said:
I would slip some dissolved crystal meth in her drink and get full custody of my son if I were you......but that's just me :)
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You know, that's kinda ironic since he was the one who showed up to the Halloween party where they met with a full cig pack sized container full of coke. She left 6 days later.
 
Jimmyjonestoo

Jimmyjonestoo

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That's rough man. I think you are handling this in the absolute smartest way by being the bigger person and letting your son see through her Bullshit on his own. At his age it won't take long. +rep to you sir for keeping yourself collected and handling this situation the best way possible.
 
budlover13

budlover13

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Jimmyjonestoo said:
That's rough man. I think you are handling this in the absolute smartest way by being the bigger person and letting your son see through her Bullshit on his own. At his age it won't take long. +rep to you sir for keeping yourself collected and handling this situation the best way possible.
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i can't honestly say i haven't daydreamed though ;)
 
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