serious feed back only!

My mother only had three children, three boys..me and my two brothers...my youngest brother who is 17 just told me and only me that he just found out he knocked up his girlfriend. as the oldest brother, 23, and none of us sons have any kids.....how should i react to this, i want to get on his ass, but i also dont want to make the situation worse. should i just congratulate him and help him to get motivated, or just knock his lights out? it really does tweek me out.

Call him a major dumbass. And yes get on his ass, but dont knock him out.
give him advice on how to go about all of this. like make sure he gets a job and spends no money on himself. Keep in mind that you don't have to punish him because he has enough on his mind. also you should congradulate him....

How old is the girl?

so i take it the girlfriend is against abortion?

if he seriously wants to have a kid now maybe you should knock some sense into him.

if i were u id buy a bunch of beers and buy some ( i dont know what there called ) of those girls that dance and take their cloths off. buy like 6 of them. just for u too.
or u can just have his back and stand up for what ever he and his girlfriend decide to do.

I would do both. First punch his lights out for being, quite literally, f'n stupid.
Then congratulate him if he intends to do the honorable thing. If he doesn't, repeat step 1.
cn

getting on his ass would not do any good...the damage is done, he is a dummy for making a baby when he is too young...hopefully he works a steady job

A-bortion.

i think shes 16-17. i dont know if shes not for the A-Button. he just told me..and it was alot to take in. hes so lazy and always up her ass. me and my other brother whos 21..dont have kids for a reason..we dont want any this young. three boys..23-21-17....i told 17 to wear a fuckin rubber....and hes like..fuck that. ""this is why i told you to hood that bitch""!!!

stairs, i am thinking stairs....why am i thinking that?

You assholes.... abortion? Fucked up.

edsweed said:

stairs, i am thinking stairs....why am i thinking that?

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hmmm u must not have any coat hangers? eh

andrew23 said:

... he's so lazy and always up her ass...

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Guess not always. (couldn't resist)
Good grief, if she's that young I'd counsel abortion as well. I'm uneasy doing so because it's such a heavy decision, but at least three lives are in play here. She's too young for this ... not even done with school yet. I do not envy your situation, since you seem to be the responsible sort of the lot. cn

Abortion? why not adoption at least?

Corso312 said:

hmmm u must not have any coat hangers? eh

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do you know how hard it is to find a metal coat hanger these days? they are all plastic. and they break too easy.

hard for me to back the abortion though, my nieces and nephews are the shit... i love em..kids are great but i don't want any..too much money and effort

Hepheastus420 said:

Abortion? why not adoption at least?

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you know when that kid is born after 9 months of pregnancy, neither the dad or mom will want to give the kid up

kicking his ass isn't gonna relieve the 18 years of child support the boy will be paying, trust me , in the end he'll have learned his lesson time and time again without you assaulting him or even ripping his ass, what good will it do to rip his ass?

just under 5 yrs in the army..three yrs active and almost two in the guard. i got my head on my shoulders. yeah, i think ill give him a very hard night...then ill soften up on him as the days go by.

I don't even understand abortion. I mean you should be glad, not pissed that you didn't wrap up.