Questioning my Sexuality? Will this change?(Non Identifiable?)

Flaming Pie

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I would use a vibrator if I were you. Much safer than trying multiple partners and keeps you from going insane with lust.
 

Flaming Pie

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that's sexual abuse, and kids of that age don't do that without having it done to them first.

chances are you were sexually abused at a young age and have no clear recollection of the occurrence or occurrences. but it's still effecting your behavior. some theories would say that you could be repressing the abusive episodes) or you could have dissociated.*

if you want a normal, sexual relationship in the future, mental health therapy or counseling is suggested.
Being introduced to Raunchy R rated movies and Porn at a young age can def stir some lust up in a child. Children often reenact scenes from movies. Once they realize it feels nice... well it can lead to repeats
 

torched

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exploration at that age is actually fairly normal, but sexually abusing your peers at that age is a learned behavior, and had to be taught to her by someone.

possibly someone with a big nose and bushy eyebrows.
xD I wasn't forceful or angry about it. I was curious as fuck but if they said no I would've stopped. They just never said No.
 

torched

Member
Start with a vibrator. If you know you can get off, then you will have more confidence.

Mental barriers are no joke. It could take you years to be able to let go.
Yeah I've gotten off with vibrators before. I can stimulate myself very well. It's when others do it that I can't deal.
 

chewberto

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I don't believe this girl...what 17 year old chooses billy clint for an avatar... something isnt lining up... This is a Dateline thread...To catch a predator..And the one that keeps insisting she uses a dildo is prime suspect...
 

UncleBuck

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xD I wasn't forceful or angry about it. I was curious as fuck but if they said no I would've stopped. They just never said No.
still more in the abuse range rather than the exploration range.

have you ever sought therapy or counseling? this seems like the type of thing that they would have asked their way to almost right away.

have you ever discussed this in particular with a counselor or therapist?
 

Flaming Pie

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I don't believe this girl...what 17 year old chooses billy clint for an avatar... something isnt lining up... This is a Dateline thread...To catch a predator..And the one that keeps insisting she uses a dildo is prime suspect...
Wha? So she should just sleep around and catch an STD? Geez.
 

torched

Member
I don't believe this girl...what 17 year old chooses billy clint for an avatar... something isnt lining up... This is a Dateline thread...To catch a predator..And the one that keeps insisting she uses a dildo is prime suspect...
you caught me! damn. to think I'm running out of confiscated big black dildos.
 

torched

Member
still more in the abuse range rather than the exploration range.

have you ever sought therapy or counseling? this seems like the type of thing that they would have asked their way to almost right away.

have you ever discussed this in particular with a counselor or therapist?
No. I don't like talking about this type of stuff to people I have to see on a weekly basis. Other than this arousal problem I'm a pretty happy, well rounded person :/

But when I was a kid I talked to a lot of school counselors an dthey all just made things worse so I'm not very confident when it comes to counselors.
 

Flaming Pie

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Weird that you come to a marijuana forum to discuss sexual problems. Your journal posts aren't even about growing.

37 posts? Did you seriously start an account to talk about this here? You know they have doctor/patient forums where you can discuss mental/physical issues.
 
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