Needing some help from experienced growers!

i didnt mean to hijack somone elses thread
how do i even start my own

Just click the "New Thread" button at the top-left of the screen, under "My Rollitup", when you're in the Newbie-Central forum.

Don't worry, I started a new thread for you, called "Stealth Grow Box". Good luck with you grow and welcome to RIU.org!