My Girlfriend Keep Attacking Me Everytime Her Daughter Does Something Wrong

Mygirlfriend always attack me when her daughter does something wrong. Last week I found that the 10 year old daughter was watching porn on my laptop. I didnt mention it until today. But everytime I tell her her daughter does something wrong she attacks me. So I didnt. Now she's mad because I just told her. My sister came over and said that my girlfriends daughter teaching my 4 year old neice bad things playing house, so I told her....I told my girlfriend when we R intimate and your daughter keep running to the door playing singing and yelling "you guys being nasty" after she keep telling her over and over again to go play, you should of said something then. She keep blaming everyone else...She caught her in a lie today and i told her i seen her she just let her go and argued me down...I showed her another video her daughter was looking at supposedly they call the dance twerking, her mother said yea its just a twerk video she watches...and I said but the girl is topless with a thong on making her booty clap. She acted like nothing was wrong with it, and after I said something attacked me again, and said dont tell her how to raise her children....I told her its inappropriate and we have to deal with her spoiled behavior. She asked what do u want me to do spank her, and I said no, just handle the situation...every other kid is punished but her in there house and its not right


This is the video she said was ok for her daughter to watch

Dump her. Don't settle for anything less then ideal.

Ps. How people find that video attractive is beyond me.

I think stuff like that is way too much...

Porn is one thing, but interrupting you guys and teaching things to other kids is too much. Your girlfriend should really explain to her that those kinds of things are strictly for behind closed doors. Does your girlfriend realize that it bothers you that much? I should mention that I'm young, don't have kids, and probably won't have kids.

Nyan Rapier said:

Porn is one thing, but interrupting you guys and teaching things to other kids is too much. Your girlfriend should really explain to her that those kinds of things are strictly for behind closed doors. Does your girlfriend realize that it bothers you that much? I should mention that I'm young, don't have kids, and probably won't have kids.

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I dont expect her to tell her thats for behind doors.....I expect her to make her quit....shes 10 years old.......yea she knows, Im sleeping on the couch now because i said something

trueweedsmoker said:

I dont expect her to tell her thats for behind doors.....I expect her to make her quit....shes 10 years old.......yea she knows, Im sleeping on the couch now because i said something

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She got pissed at you for saying that something bothered you? Then got defensive saying that you're trying to tell her how to raise her daughter? Since you're asking for RIU's opinion... dump her. Sleep on it though.

thats what i thought i should do....My children knows better....Her child isnt made to lay back down when she wakes up, she watches tv as she pleases in her room....Its affecting the other kids. Its just too messy for me even out of the 10yr old.....If an adult tell her to stop running in the house she runs back to her mother and makes up an elaborate story. She started saying I hate her child today, I told her no im just fed up. she has the child ease dropping on my conversation with friends on the phone and off, she does it alot too.. Im ready to call it quits

trueweedsmoker said:

thats what i thought i should do....My children knows better....Her child isnt made to lay back down when she wakes up, she watches tv as she pleases in her room....Its affecting the other kids. Its just too messy for me even out of the 10yr old.....If an adult tell her to stop running in the house she runs back to her mother and makes up an elaborate story. She started saying I hate her child today, I told her no im just fed up. she has the child ease dropping on my conversation with friends on the phone and off, she does it alot too.. Im ready to call it quits

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Kids can be pretty annoying. Of course parents and especially mothers don't believe their kids can do any wrong whatsoever. I remember when my mom gave me hell for watching pornography when I was 11-12. It's kind of a weird subject to think about from an adult perspective, but besides that I was a perfect kid. Anyhow do you think the problem is with you girlfriend or with her daughter?

Nyan Rapier said:

Kids can be pretty annoying. Of course parents and especially mothers don't believe their kids can do any wrong whatsoever. I remember when my mom gave me hell for watching pornography when I was 11-12. It's kind of a weird subject to think about from an adult perspective, but besides that I was a perfect kid. Anyhow do you think the problem is with you girlfriend or with her daughter?

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both actually i think the daughter learned it from her mother and father......i knew her mother a long time she wasnt like that.....but i hear the fathers messy also....i have alot of baby daddy issues. he wont do for his child...im just tired of it but dont wanna do her wrong when everyone else abandoned them.....ive learned that people abandon there kin, but only when someone else comes in and help them, thats when they wanna act like they wanna help them, because they dont really have to do nothing. When she dont need them. But soon as i leave her there gonna abandon her again....i just worry about them, thats the only reason i havent split yet

Fuck that bitch.


I'd get off the couch, walk into the room and tell her to kick rocks.

Maybe try thinking about it objectively? You could make a list of positive and negatives of staying in the relationship. Weigh out your options, man. It might give you some more insight on the bigger picture and help you think about it more. Although it seems like you've been thinking about it for a while now. I suppose it's her house?

Keep in mind this is advice coming from someone that punched a 9 yo in the nuts.. He hit me first.

mr sunshine said:

Keep in mind this is advice from someone that punched a 9 yo in the nuts.. He hit me first.

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Since we're being honest, I hate kids. Mostly just the super ADD ones that act like chihuahuas. I also hate chihuahuas

Nyan Rapier said:

Since we're being honest, I hate kids.

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I don't hate kids, I just instantly hit people back when they hit me in the nuts . For legal reasons I'm just going to call it an uncontrollable reaction, it wasn't savage but I connected. Little fucker spit in my face once, I covered his with a huge loogie.

mr sunshine said:

I don't hate kids I just instantly hit people back when they hit me in the nuts.. it wasn't savage but I connected. Little fucker spit in my face once, I covered his with a huge loogie.

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He had it coming. The gods forgive you.

kinda feel like I made myself look like a bad guy so I just wanted to say. It wasn't my kid it was someone else's. I don't want anyone thinking I'm a bad parent or anything.

yall fuckin crazy hahaha........naw its my house.....she'll have no where to go.......how do i like a reply on here..i dont see the button

I don't see a problem here. Was I supposed to read anything in particular?

trueweedsmoker said:

yall fuckin crazy hahaha........naw its my house.....she'll have no where to go.......how do i like a reply on here..i dont see the button

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>Your house
>sleeping on the couch.
>okay

trueweedsmoker said:

yall fuckin crazy hahaha........naw its my house.....she'll have no where to go.......how do i like a reply on here..i dont see the button

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If it's your place just put your foot down. Don't be afraid of disciplining her on the spot if you catch her watching something you deemed inappropriate. When the mom gets mad tell her you won't allow that type of shit at your house and If she don't like it she can get the fuck out.. honestly, it all seems simple enough.