Most Miserable Period Of My Life Selfish Gf

She argues with me alot over bullshit once she argued all week that i missed an exam and got 0 pts. I lost my financial aid becuase she decided to visit for a whole week during midterm week. I am in the worst financial period in my life, i started to grow and sell to my friends and family but it failed becuase im unexperienced with growing weed and she bugs and rushes me to visit and i end up rushing the dry and cure and never had a good harvest becuase of early chop or mold or nasty quick dry buds. she lives 44 miles away, i had only 25$ and was pressured to visit her on a day i had school and after school traffic jam 2 hours. When i seen her we eat at some exspensive place her cusin and her order sonething and shared, my gf order and i had to pay so thats 20$ gone and my gas tank is empty. I had 5$ left to get gas and to make it worse all free way ramps were closed and i made it home but my card died infront of My house. I have no phone so thank god that it died infront of my house. Than later spoke to her and pretty much blew up blame her why im so miserable and if my car died in free way im going to walk into it and let the cars finish me up. Made her cry than i told her i want to stop visiting her till im financially ready becuase this isnt the first time i put myself at risk becuase of her argueing and selfishness. Deep down inside i feel im going to leave her soon or die stressed miserable.

Dude you cant blame her for your decisions you can easily say no and man up..It sounds like she wears the pants in the relationship..Honestly you missed the midterm/exam w/e for your own reason you could have easily said babe i gotta go see ya later thats all.

I totally agree with wyteberry, accountability leads to happiness. You control your actions, and actions control outcome. & remember everything is temporary, nothing can stay bad or good forever.

8-8 8-8 9-9 7-8 good luck in the simi finals.

In school, eh? Time for a new gf, my friend. Drop the attention whore and get yourself a gf that understands the demands of college. This one will make you a loser with a shitty gpa. Sorry. Been there and didn't put up with that shit.

iriefarmer said:

I totally agree with wyteberry, accountability leads to happiness. You control your actions, and actions control outcome. & remember everything is temporary, nothing can stay bad or good forever.

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Winter Woman said:

In school, eh? Time for a new gf, my friend. Drop the attention whore and get yourself a gf that understands the demands of college. This one will make you a loser with a shitty gpa. Sorry. Been there and didn't put up with that shit.

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These are women telling you this..Honestly MAN UP....

Heres a recent argument we had 3 days before visiting her, i told her i probably cant come becuase i have jury duty and this is the third letter and thier threaten to put me in jail if i miss it again. Than she argues and complains, and im like why cant you understand i can go to jail if i skip that to see u. Its like you dont give a shit and just want to see me. Than she gets emo and tell me im very harsh.

NoobgrowerLbc said:

Heres a recent argument we had 3 days before visiting her, i told her i probably cant come becuase i have jury duty and this is the third letter and thier threaten to put me in jail if i miss it again. Than she argues and complains, and im like why cant you understand i can go to jail if i skip that to see u. Its like you dont give a shit and just want to see me. Than she gets emo and tell me im very harsh.

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Dude get a lady not a liottle girl like that

Here's my Dr. Phil advice:

Stop doing crap you can't or simply don't want to do if it puts you out. If she's rational she'll understand why you won't do something. If she's not rational, say adios to her and feel justified for it. No one taking advantage of anyone and no one being taken advantage of that way.

Good luck either way - dating sucks and I'm glad I'm done with it. I feel your pain.

This is the reason why i only had 25$ when i saw her she asked for a exspensive late vday present so i mailed her 55$ to her cusins house to give to her to buy it. Well the mail was never recieved mane her cusin took it and a week later she bug bug and bug later which is today is why i blew up so hard and also i never got my gift so fuck all of you who thinks im a bad guy,

** she bug bug bug me to come visit**

and moveing right along to the next heartbreaking thread.

Nobody says you bad but your decision making is

sounds like she has her head on straight and you don't deserve her..

Drop yer swede on her and say weres my fucking tea!
joke

I don't think you're a bad guy. I think you are a student who will put up with a gf like so you will get laid from time to time. A gf that will take you for every little bit of self-respect, money and the most precious commodity for a student -'time'

Learn the lesson now or learn the lesson later. Hint-Later will be way more expensive.

NoobgrowerLbc said:

This is the reason why i only had 25$ when i saw her she asked for a exspensive late vday present so i mailed her 55$ to her cusins house to give to her to buy it. Well the mail was never recieved mane her cusin took it and a week later she bug bug and bug later which is today is why i blew up so hard and also i never got my gift so fuck all of you who thinks im a bad guy,

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True statment my missus owns me and half my house, car etc....

I've seen attention whores like that ruiiiin guys. Wear the pants, as they're all saying, and get your space. If she can't understand that.. you shouldn't be with her. End of story. College is important, or atleast I think so. Worry about yourself first.

Lol fuck me! This is the most female replies in RUI history i mean have you ever seen a thread so so many high ranked females on a bud forum. I didnt think they exist, but great advice all im planning on dumpin her soon unless things change, also for the record shes a virgin so i never fucked her all i gotten was my cock sucked and that was it so no im not with her just for sex.

lol let me tell you ONE thing...

she will NOT change.

from what you've said this behavior has carried over in the long term, which means she likely will never change. drop her, don't even question it, weigh out the ridiculous amounts of stress she's put on your life vs happiness, then it will be VERY easy to get rid of her.

don't bullshit yourself.