life turned upside down...in one day

I was pullin 2-3 oz plants in a cubby hole in the garage w cfls...I'm pretty xcited myself to have a room dedicated to growing...couple 600s w my cfls on the side....I see bigger and bttr things

Mr.Vega said:

I was pullin 2-3 oz plants in a cubby hole in the garage w cfls...I'm pretty xcited myself to have a room dedicated to growing...couple 600s w my cfls on the side....I see bigger and bttr things

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That's the spirit!, as the commercial says..."You are now free to move about the country".

Or in your case, grow about the country.

Good luck!

Yep sorry to hear about that Vega..

Wouldn't that be funny though if Hydrocropper just splashed outta no where with some specular harvest videos right about now?! lmfao...

sure would take the cake.

Mr.Vega said:

I was pullin 2-3 oz plants in a cubby hole in the garage w cfls...I'm pretty xcited myself to have a room dedicated to growing...couple 600s w my cfls on the side....I see bigger and bttr things

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I was also limited to my grow aswell before I branched out just in a different way, but keeping seeing better things in your life and it will happen. I think it was Hunter S. Thompson who said, " your life is the movie and you are the director." or maybe it wasn't him. Anyways you get the point.

deePTokEn said:

Yep sorry to hear about that Vega..

Wouldn't that be funny though if Hydrocropper just splashed outta no where with some specular harvest videos right about now?! lmfao...

sure would take the cake.

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Hydrocropper been gone for about a month. I wonder what happened to him

weird but im kinda experiencing same shit here with my GF! they don't fucking stand to see u grow ur shit and have some fun they will never understand!! i'm moving now... my choice, i PAY THE BILLS and we clearly gonna see who's gonna loose! she have the lease on her name, a 1600$ rent! dont know how will she handle that with a 2000$ salary! anyways not my problem... Plus i already found an apartment, signed the lease and moving next month AND she doen't have an idea about it!!! she's gonna find out bout this as im parking the u-hall truck in the driveway this will avoid me lots of sabotage as i know her... i'm chopping in 28th and moving on the first! wish u good luck buddy with this!

My fiancé always jokes about being in a three way relationship with her, mary and I. lol She's pretty understanding though. It's my career and she treats it as such.

Confucious said:

I was also limited to my grow aswell before I branched out just in a different way, but keeping seeing better things in your life and it will happen. I think it was Hunter S. Thompson who said, " your life is the movie and you are the director." or maybe it wasn't him. Anyways you get the point.

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Hunter s is one of my favorite ppl...and my life has def been such an interesting and exhausting movie already I'm really just on a quest for peace...peace of mind...ima make a wise decision when I make my move.

Everyone has had cool comments...I appreciate it...I can't "like" em cause my fones jackin up just so u don't think I'm. One of those "non likers"..id like if it would let me...that's another thing..ha...my badass galaxy 3 smartfone was on her contract...lost that too...stuck w this sub par fone...ha..for now

Sorry about your trouble. After 20 years I'm leaving my wife so I know what your going thou. People are just what they are you can't change them and if you change to make them happy then you won't be happy. It's hard but you will be better off in the long run. Take care of your self don't look for revenge. You being happy will be the best revenge. Good luck

i got the last one in mrs sunnyboy. she helps with the gardening AND she never bitches about how much i smoke either because it truly is medication for me.

good luck and don't tell the next gf anything until you are married

Eh considering its your wife and not your girlfriend. I think you guys should talk about this.

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Sorry about your trouble. After 20 years I'm leaving my wife so I know what your going thou. People are just what they are you can't change them and if you change to make them happy then you won't be happy. It's hard but you will be better off in the long run. Take care of your self don't look for revenge. You being happy will be the best revenge. Good luck

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My thoughts exactly...if I woulda gave up growing to suit her needs I woulda resented her for it...so a tru damned if ya do damned if ya don't situation...she's tried to stir me up a couple time since I left but I'm comfortable w my decision and looking foward to what's to come...thing is I work 84 hours a week..7 12 hour shifts then off for three days then do it all over again...that's my life schedule...I would spend maybe 30 mins a day tending to my plants...I only had four...and things that took real time id do on my days off while she was at work...stil wasn't good enuf for her.....she never bitched abt my smoking all day every day just the growing cause it took attention away frm her...so I'm glad to b outta the situation and literaly feel free again....I was very pissed as I was giving away my plants and was very close to perfoming a vengful act..but kept my cool thinking the whole time of how much better and bigger ima b able to grow on my own...im really gonna chk and see what it would take to move to CO...and where the best place there would b to go ...finding an affordable place and job til I get things goin....I gotta pretty green thumb and I honestly feel w a nice set up I could grow w the best of em....it really is just a daydream but ima look into it and see how achievable that goal might b for me.

Dontae said:

Eh considering its your wife and not your girlfriend. I think you guys should talk about this.

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The time for talk is done! This is a time for action! If this broad has threatened your plants, threatened your security (i.e. the place you LIVE) and said she ain't comin home till you're gone...GO! 3 years ago the mother of my kid bailed out while I was away for an evening and left me a note on the table saying she and my son were "staying at her friends for a while" at first I tried to tell her she was making a mistake. She didn't listen. For 3 months she played games coming around (all her shit was still in the house and she was on the lease too) while talking on the phone with dudes, just generally being shitty. I moved on, found an awesome chick that loves to hang out, cook, smoke, grow, act like a LADY, you know..a keeper. It was only 1 month into that, the ex starts calling about she made a mistake and she will do anything to have me back and to have her family back together. I told her to kick rocks. I'm still with my girl, still happy, still loving life (at least the parts of it the ex can't fuck up) and she's still saying she wants me back. The point is, don't let fickle dames stand in the way of your life!

Dontae said:

Eh considering its your wife and not your girlfriend. I think you guys should talk about this.

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Bro I'm pretty good at solving problems...and was def willing to bend a little to make things work...this has been a long time coming..I've tried everyway I know how to make it work and stil retain my dignity as a man...she became impossible to deal w...once u start fighting and those bad feelings start poppin up for each other...its hard to get bk on track...I loved her..and have known her. Since we were kids....she up n changed on me

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The time for talk is done! This is a time for action! If this broad has threatened your plants, threatened your security (i.e. the place you LIVE) and said she ain't comin home till you're gone...GO! 3 years ago the mother of my kid bailed out while I was away for an evening and left me a note on the table saying she and my son were "staying at her friends for a while" at first I tried to tell her she was making a mistake. She didn't listen. For 3 months she played games coming around (all her shit was still in the house and she was on the lease too) while talking on the phone with dudes, just generally being shitty. I moved on, found an awesome chick that loves to hang out, cook, smoke, grow, act like a LADY, you know..a keeper. It was only 1 month into that, the ex starts calling about she made a mistake and she will do anything to have me back and to have her family back together. I told her to kick rocks. I'm still with my girl, still happy, still loving life (at least the parts of it the ex can't fuck up) and she's still saying she wants me back. The point is, don't let fickle dames stand in the way of your life!

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Roger that...before her I was single for a long time...and honestly I have no desire to have a female in my life as a steady partner for a long while....just seems like they're more trouble than they're worth most times....I got my dog...my genetics..and enuf lights and fans to get started...stil have my job so ima save a couple chks and then start looking for a place...I don't have a problem w being alone for a while...I'm actually looking foward to it.

Oh yeah I took my soil too...gotta good mix goin..and my smart pots

Mr.Vega said:

Roger that...before her I was single for a long time...and honestly I have no desire to have a female in my life as a steady partner for a long while....just seems like they're more trouble than they're worth most times....I got my dog...my genetics..and enuf lights and fans to get started...stil have my job so ima save a couple chks and then start looking for a place...I don't have a problem w being alone for a while...I'm actually looking foward to it.

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Marry the dog, leave the 2-legged creature behind...yes I'm baked.

Just keep looking at the silver linning, ull b koo, keep ur head up.

Hey Vega sorry to hear bout the drama. From your description it sounds like you were lucky enough not to have any children with the woman, so be thankful you didn't knock her up, and keep on keepin' on!

You're one of the few CFLers I have enjoyed watching. You sound like you've got your head on straight and a plan... What more can you really ask for.. Good luck!