Is my girlfriend responsible?

Hey guys, newbie to the site here. I just have a quick question regarding my grow. I live with my girlfriend but she has no idea about my closet grow. The door is deadbolted with no light and no odor escaping, she is under the impression that my expensive tools are in the being kept safe. (im a carpenter) can she be held responsible for my grow when she doesn't know about it?

Shes not unless you guys talk to the cops if they come

no aslong as you claim them as yours, how many you got and wich country you based? depends on national/state laws

Very very good question. From my prospective and the fact my dad is a cop in another state. So long as you own up 100% that it is yours and she had nothing to do with it. You should be fine.

though i would really consider telling her mate... The (very) slim chance they do show up your gf is going to be one hott lady at you.

Seriously, you need to be honest with her. The fact is that if something bad happens, cops, rippers, etc you are putting her life and future in jeopardy. She has a right to know.

Man up. Tell your woman your growing in the house YOU SHARE.

My .02

CK

captiankush said:

Seriously, you need to be honest with her. The fact is that if something bad happens, cops, rippers, etc you are putting her life and future in jeopardy. She has a right to know.

Man up. Tell your woman your growing in the house YOU SHARE.

My .02

CK

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Well I'm new here and not 100 percent sure on the security as far as police reading and being able to use my words against me, so for her sake I'll just say this ... I'm not the type of guy to lie to her about something like that but if she was aware I wouldn't admit to it in writing. What I should of asked is if I got busted and SAID that she knew nothing about it would she be responsible for it but it looks like I already got the answer. Thanks guys.

Thestinker said:

no aslong as you claim them as yours, how many you got and wich country you based? depends on national/state laws

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It is illegal in my country to grow. It is the same penalty for one plant as is for multiple. But only severe penalties for intent to distribute. Like 5 to 30 years. But this will be for personal use. <~~*ahem* I plan on having about 24 in a sog set up in the closet. Still in seedling stage Right now. Using bag seed for a couple grows until my thumbs get a little greener

dude, if you like this girl, u need to tell her. if you smoke together it may not be that bad. but if your dating, and she doesnt smoke, whether she knows you do or not, she may throw your ass under the bus, the quote "Heaven has no rage like love to hatred turned / Nor hell a fury like a woman scorned." is that quote for a reason, cuz it's true. been married 11 years, and she will stand by me to the day I die as long as I am honest. plus, who wants to give up in house ass!!! as captain kush said "my .02"

iwould definitly feel her out about how she feels about growing weed before just telling her. you never know, she might flip the fuck out. or she might ask you what kinda nutes you use lol.

Don't say anything!!!

Worst advice ever.

dont tell women, unless you want to move and disappear when you break up.

How to get busted:
1) Females know about it and are unhappy about something
2) Stealing Power
3) Smell
4) Running your mouth. This leads to 1)

captiankush said:

Seriously, you need to be honest with her. The fact is that if something bad happens, cops, rippers, etc you are putting her life and future in jeopardy. She has a right to know.

Man up. Tell your woman your growing in the house YOU SHARE.

My .02

CK

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Dude, you dont have to tell her a thing.

When them plants are into flowering the smell will explain everything for ya.

Problem solved.

meowmix said:

Worst advice ever.

dont tell women, unless you want to move and disappear when you break up.

How to get busted:
1) Females know about it and are unhappy about something
2) Stealing Power
3) Smell
4) Running your mouth. This leads to 1)

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You got that right. Better kiss her ass once the truth comes out...or else

I dont trust anyone, especially a girl.

hell no if she doesn't know all the better if she finds out about it and than she's responsible for it. If you can hide from her you can hide it from anyone. There used to be this video on youtube dude grew an amazing I pound plant behind some little fake wall and claimed his wife didn't even know about it, it was awesome I'm lookin for it.

In addition to protecting yourself by not telling her, Her best protection might be a real "WTF IS THAT" reaction for the clops if the hammer ever falls.

Pipe Dream said:

hell no if she doesn't know all the better if she finds out about it and than she's responsible for it. If you can hide from her you can hide it from anyone. There used to be this video on youtube dude grew an amazing I pound plant behind some little fake wall and claimed his wife didn't even know about it, it was awesome I'm lookin for it.

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