interracial dating

SmokeyDan said:

Being white, I really think taking a spouse who was asian or middle eastern (non muslim or at least willing to convert), or even Hispanic would not be a big shock.

Sure, the children would look a little different than if the spouse was also white, but when mating with a black person their looks and features are strong and dominate.

I may be old fashioned but I don't think my life is entirely mine. I think it is somewhat selfish to assume that the opinion of your siblings and parents are irrelevant in your life choices.

It is the same line of reasoning why we look so poorly on suicide. Ones life is not in entirety their own, they owe something to those who love them the most.

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UncleBuck said:

you can't rely on daddy's dollars all your life, cupcake.

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SmokeyDan said:

Although I do have some diversity in my ancestral ethnicity, for all practical purposes the world looks at me as a white man.

About two months ago I met a lovely young black girl and we've been chatting. We decided to spend most of the day together doing stuff.

I live in the south, but I'm in a tourist town with people from all over the eastern half of the country in large numbers. In fact out and about there are probably more people there from somewhere else, many of them places like PA NY OH AND MI.

Anyway, first time dating her, and first actual date with someone of another race.

I felt a lot of stares.

There was this one place we went to. We were put into an elevator with two young white girls who were attractive. Those two girls acted very strange.

We then went to another place and walked passed another interracial couple, a black man and white woman. The white woman probably didn't even have a clue we existed, the black guy with her was just giving me a mean stare.

There was another time when we pulled over at an overlook for a view. As we were standing there a big suv full of white people pulled in and made us feel awkward.

But I had a real good time.

But man, I might understand what some people go through a little better now.

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SmokeyDan said:

Although I do have some diversity in my ancestral ethnicity, for all practical purposes the world looks at me as a white man.

About two months ago I met a lovely young black girl and we've been chatting. We decided to spend most of the day together doing stuff.

I live in the south, but I'm in a tourist town with people from all over the eastern half of the country in large numbers. In fact out and about there are probably more people there from somewhere else, many of them places like PA NY OH AND MI.

Anyway, first time dating her, and first actual date with someone of another race.

I felt a lot of stares.

There was this one place we went to. We were put into an elevator with two young white girls who were attractive. Those two girls acted very strange.

We then went to another place and walked passed another interracial couple, a black man and white woman. The white woman probably didn't even have a clue we existed, the black guy with her was just giving me a mean stare.

There was another time when we pulled over at an overlook for a view. As we were standing there a big suv full of white people pulled in and made us feel awkward.

But I had a real good time.

But man, I might understand what some people go through a little better now.

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UncleBuck said:

my grandma didn't come to my wedding because i married a jew.

man up, bignbushy. your dad will probably cut you off if he found out about this or your sexual proclivities with men, but that is part of being an adult.

you can't rely on daddy's dollars all your life, cupcake.










edit: cupcake, not cuntcake. freudian slip.

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schuylaar said:

i don't get you bnb.

we all know you have black blood as you've indicated to us many, many times..this is nothing new.

you've indicated you'd like to have slaves and that you as their loving master would have your pick of the stable.

did you happen to mention any of this to the girl you were dating?

you were looking to feel weird and awkward..you are caught in crux of a dying dixie identity crisis.

get some therapy, man!

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god1 said:

Given what you've said, what's the probability that he made this whole story up?

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polo the don said:

I'm a white man married to a black women. 18yrs. We live in Louisiana so I know the looks people give, especially black men.

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polo the don said:

I'm a white man married to a black women. 18yrs. We live in Louisiana so I know the looks people give, especially black men.

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ttystikk said:

I'm white. My first girlfriend was Asian. I should never have let her go...

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SmokeyDan said:

A white male is the most desirable mate on the planet.

Black females often feel intimidated that white men wouldn't want to have anything to do with them.

This is according to some reading I've done over the past few days.

There really aren't that many attractive black females. Proportionally much fewer are good looking compared to other ethnicities.

So black men like white women for two reasons. First it is a status symbol (being that white females are the second most desired mate) and they usually have money, at least more money than their black counterparts.

Unfortunately I have had to eliminate this girl I went out with from any serious consideration. She has kids. I don't have kids, I'll be damned if I'm going to raise someone elses.

her kids are mixed. Apparently she only dates white dudes.

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schuylaar said:

agreed.

but i've been in RIU politics long enough to know that BNB's story adds up.

he tells the same story all the time and is spot on with detail..so i do believe it.

he's a kid that got mixed up with H and dropped out of law school.

daddy takes care of him like a good southern daddy should.

BNB has a high sexual appetite which has been proven by the time he assaulted (self-admitted) a girl who was paraplegic. though not able to exactly speak..her grunts were enough to signify "yes". he later put on a "fresh" diaper for her (what a guy!) after he was done..the homosexual stuff i won't even get into.

BNB has also referred to his "blackness" ad nauseum..the desire to own slaves and for them have a "loving master"

it is no surprise that he wishes an interracial relationship.

unfortunately, his prejudice will outweigh his desire and ruin whatever chance he has with this girl.

BNB listen to me..listen to your desires and follow your heart..the south will NEVER rise again and you'll be a lonely old codger when you could have had a chance..a real chance at love..people looking, staring, maybe a hint of laughter is your badge of honor..prove that you have it and fuck them where they breathe!

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god1 said:

I started to question what “Smokey” was up to when he made his comment that “some rape is worse than others” ... sounds similar to Bucky; But I think not. Bucky to me, seems more about dramatic effect, and being obnoxious than deep seated hateful bias. I’m not so sure about Smokey.

Of course I know nothing about these people other than my interpretation of their writings; and this is a Pot-Head forum; so I could be way off base.

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schuylaar said:

you should wink back and do the "push in the bush" with your fist and arm.

betchya they won't do it again.

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schuylaar said:

didn't you know she had kids before you went out with her?

also, you know you can go on
line to a match.com type of place and post in the inteither5l section for more options?

this will give you more opportunity..also craigs list for your area.

you're at odds with yourself because of what you've been taught..if you have health insurance why not go and talk to a male therapist? you're never going to stop the desire..

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