You can use a dimmer switch to control the speed of your fan but not the light.
Um, no. Incandescent light dimmers will not work on a fan. They are intended for purely resistive loads. Motors present an inductive load and require use of a fan motor speed controller.
If you connect a fan to an incandescent dimmer and try to dial it down, the fan motor will stall just off the full speed setting. If the motor is left stalled, it will overheat, possibly catching fire.
If you need to dial down fan speed, get a fan motor speed controller. On the lighting aisle in your local hdwe, probably right next to the dimmers! MSCs are about $35 for a 300W unit.
As others have said, forget about using dimmers with HPS.
HPS and fluorescents work on similar principles and are similarly incompatible with dimmers. There are some fluoro lights now being sold which are compatible with a certain type of dimmer (generates a DC control signal voltage), but these are quite expensive.