Wh00p
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My mom, who i will take the liberty to clarify a girl laughs at her own jokes..
thats pretty gay..
lol
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thats pretty gay..
lol
blynd
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not to call you out wh00p, but ... why do people still say "gay" in place of stupid? I thought 'gay' meant happy, or homosexual .... it just bothers me more than I let most people know
Wh00p
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dun worry to much about it..
I used to live in chicago, So i have a little bit chicago accent in me..But then i moved down to North carolina and well i developed words such as yall, as well as the hip words (at the time) such as "thats gay" or Dank which i use to this day.
call it a habit if you will.
blynd
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I understand that there is no malicious intent behind the word most of the time (again, I wasn't calling you out). but, there are words that aren't also derogatory to a group of people that can suffice. I don't really "worry about it" it just bothers me when I hear it.
it's the same thing with racial slurs ... the n-word used to be acceptable for white people to say. I'm not saying "gay" is as bad as the n-word AT ALL but I am saying that its offensive and I have no idea why it's so commonly accepted as slang.
EDIT- sorry for the OT discussion
it's the same thing with racial slurs ... the n-word used to be acceptable for white people to say. I'm not saying "gay" is as bad as the n-word AT ALL but I am saying that its offensive and I have no idea why it's so commonly accepted as slang.
EDIT- sorry for the OT discussion
Wikidbchofthewst
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I don't like it when people try to force me to be PC. I'm not saying that's what's going on of course, it's just giving me that....ruffled feathered feeling.
You know it's not a walk-in closet anymore? Because that's not fair to people who can't walk. It's a...big closet now, I guess.
You know it's not a walk-in closet anymore? Because that's not fair to people who can't walk. It's a...big closet now, I guess.
blynd
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it's not name calling i'm referring to either ... it's using this term which IS a label for a reason other than using it in its proper context. gay = stupid gay= bad. I don't like that at all ... about 10 years ago it was "jew".
at least my part of the world. "that's so jewish" was the phrase... bugged the shit out of me. the word wasn't even used to talk about jewish stereotypes. it had nothing to do with jewish people. it just replaced "crappy" or "stupid".
okay, I think I'm done with this... I probably shouldn't have brought it up
at least my part of the world. "that's so jewish" was the phrase... bugged the shit out of me. the word wasn't even used to talk about jewish stereotypes. it had nothing to do with jewish people. it just replaced "crappy" or "stupid".
okay, I think I'm done with this... I probably shouldn't have brought it up
Wh00p
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In reallity your right, the word really is out of place..But the rule of thumb is that alot of words are.
just because i told someone that they suck doesnt mean im telling them that they inhale.. you know what im saying?
thats my perspective, since you shared yours with me, i decided i should as well.
happy smoking
just because i told someone that they suck doesnt mean im telling them that they inhale.. you know what im saying?
thats my perspective, since you shared yours with me, i decided i should as well.
happy smoking
since we are sharing ......... YouTube - bush beatbox
Wikidbchofthewst
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Yeah, except I know plenty of homosexuals who use gay in the same way. lol, sounds like the same situation as another word I know...
back to the girls .......... YouTube - Teletubbies: Shake That Ass Bitch
Lacy
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Yeah I get what he is saying. 
In reallity your right, the word really is out of place..But the rule of thumb is that alot of words are.
just because i told someone that they suck doesnt mean im telling them that they inhale.. you know what im saying?umm not really.
thats my perspective, since you shared yours with me, i decided i should as well.
happy smoking
Lacy
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causee people just do now-a-days.
My hubby makes funny of everyone and especially if its a guy who is looking or acting gay but isn't.
Yes and I have often wondered the same thing.
Why do gay people call themselves gay and then get offended.
It is true? With all the movements going on in the world it is difficult to know how to treat or relate to some people.
My hubby says he doesn't have a problem with gay people as long as they are not in his face about it.
He wonders why men or women would flaunt the very fact that they are gay, dress up to make sure they get noticed and then kick up hell if anyone gets pissed off.
I do see his point though. I don't have a problem with homosexuality at all as long as the people male or female are respectful and considerate it makes absolutely no difference to me. If fact I often find I like many of these individuals for the mere fact that the are courageous to be themselves. As long as people aren't waving it in my face, i am ok wif it.
My hubby makes funny of everyone and especially if its a guy who is looking or acting gay but isn't.
Gay used to be used as a term of joy but over the years got turned into a homosexual term. Now it is just used as a derrogatory slang term.
Yes and I have often wondered the same thing.
Why do gay people call themselves gay and then get offended.
It is true? With all the movements going on in the world it is difficult to know how to treat or relate to some people.
My hubby says he doesn't have a problem with gay people as long as they are not in his face about it.
He wonders why men or women would flaunt the very fact that they are gay, dress up to make sure they get noticed and then kick up hell if anyone gets pissed off.
I do see his point though. I don't have a problem with homosexuality at all as long as the people male or female are respectful and considerate it makes absolutely no difference to me. If fact I often find I like many of these individuals for the mere fact that the are courageous to be themselves. As long as people aren't waving it in my face, i am ok wif it.
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Lacy
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I also didn't know laughing at ones own jokes was stupid. 
I must be a real dumbass then 
Isn't this ironic
I must be a real dumbass then Isn't this ironic
Lacy
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LMAO! Priceless. Tis thread is funny as hell. Gotta rep you for this alone. 
your right I can't keep a conversation! but I'm working on the not being an asshole thing
Well of course....it says girls only
It so isn't the case. It is called 'emotional blackmail'
I think it is human nature to use guilt to get people to do what we want them to do but when you start making demads on people, it is tkaing away their free will and nobody has the right to do that to anyone.
I think I MIGHT be nterested in seeing my hubby hit on a stripper. At least I'd know he is still alive.
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heehee. typical man.
j/k thats so l-a-m-e. Thats lame for a man or woman to be bumming from someone else.
Buy your own dude. Its really F**ked up sh*t wikid. My man can get really possessive like this. I think it is a control issue and isn't a healthy one.
thats just plain selfish. I hate it when people try and manipulate me with guilt. It turns me OFF also because I do not like to be manipulated in any way at all.
I think people like this have control issues and have to feel like they are in charge at all times. It becomes very annoying after a while.
These people often get what they 'want' via their anger and threats but I doubt that they really get back the respect that they are seeking
AnitaNuggs
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n who ever left bad rep... shame on you.
shoulda heard what i said.
you could have at least left your name. and i'm not the one to judge.
i thought id make a thread like the girls only section for the elite.
didnt think i was gunna hurt ppls feelings sorry!
peace.
shoulda heard what i said.
you could have at least left your name. and i'm not the one to judge.
i thought id make a thread like the girls only section for the elite.
didnt think i was gunna hurt ppls feelings sorry!
peace.
AnitaNuggs
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OMG!!!! ...... (sarcastic)OMG! Is this for real? This is like riu 'blind date.'
no nothing of the sort. and as of the quote and comment left by you lacy
"""These people often get what they 'want' via their anger and threats but I doubt that they really get back the respect that they are seeking
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Originally Posted by AnitaNuggs
fuk that.
you still buy my weed.""
Did you not read what was above it? I am very happy in my relationship with alx420, i dont care what you think. I think its funny that you come onto a thread and to what..? make fun and laugh at the others? sick fun....
no internet dating for me, thats how my ma got beat. I met alx420 through my brother in REAL LIFE. not on sum stupid dating site or on riu.
Lacy
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Hey gurl. I was just joking wif you. I admit I can be somewhat sarcastic but I had fun in this thread and most certainly would not have given you bad rep . In fact I have never given anyone bad rep here before.
In fact I will rep you now just to make up for whomever gave you negative rep but I can assure you that it wasn't mecry:
I thought that you were joking about meeting up and I think you two are both fun people.
In fact I will rep you now just to make up for whomever gave you negative rep but I can assure you that it wasn't me
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