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Girl Friend troubles

Discussion in 'Toke N Talk' started by joey5129, Dec 4, 2011.

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    joey5129

    joey5129 Member

    So im kinda of a loser and couldnt think of any where else to get my advise ..but so hears whats up ....about 2/3 mouths ago i got my self a new girl freind ive never had such a connection with anybody ..We meant at a show through a mutal freind and started dating about a week after meeting ...So things were going great we had sex 3 times a day could not stay away from each other ..talking about moving in with each other ..than it happend i told her that me and some freinds were going ice fishing id never been ..She had to work so she couldnt come she seemed kinda mad about it i told her me and the boys were going to get drunk and stay at the freinds house who had invited us ...She didnt like the idea but she didnt say i coundt go so anyways at like 9 oclock i call her work she was suppsoed to get off at 10 they said she had just left ...anyways my freind that i rode u with wants to leave after a while and we get to her place like 11.00 she lives with a couple roomates in a Hostle kind a thing ..So i come around the corner to her room and there she is with no shirt on just a bra and sweat pants i was so happy to see her and than i saw they most acward look ive ever seen in anyones eyes ..she turns around and bolts into her room and slams the door ..i knock thinking shes jokeing with me no answer i look down and she left the keys in her door so turn the handle she has her foot on the door but force it open there on her bed is her coworker with his shirt off .. turned around immidtley to leave about half way down the hallway she catches up to me and says shes sorry and what not ..meanwhile the boy shes was worth come around the corner and says i herd you 2 broke up .....im really drunk me and her start arguing the little bastard sneeks out the back door ...Now she claims that they were just kissing and than she realized what she was doing was Wrong and when i saw her leaving her room that she was going to get her ciggs and had already told the kid to leave ....we ened up having some really good make up sex ..that was like two weeks ago and no it seems like all i can think about is the fact she cheated on me ..I feel like im still with her because i want revenge if u know what i mean ....im so confused and hert i just feel lost i dont know what to do i think i love her but i dont trust her at all ....shes has stayed the night at my house every night since than ...shes kinda clingy now like she realized how much i mean to her and how close she came to losing me forever ..i dont know what whould you people do in my shoes ...thanks 4 reading i just really wanted to get this off my chest felt so good just to tell someone im in a new city and dont really have freinds that i want to talk about this with
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    brandon727272

    brandon727272 Active Member

    Once a cheating slut, always a cheating slut. You've only been with her for a few months, drop her before you get more attached and it happens again. Won't be easy but it's your best option in my opinion. Good luck man
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    AltarNation

    AltarNation Well-Known Member

    Yo, you sound young, and that's a short time to worry about your relationship in this way. if you got this much drama 2-3 months in, just imagine where it's headed.

    It would probably be a good idea to separate for now. Don't think of things in such absolute terms... you don't have to stab the bitch, just separate yourself from her. Take some time to think about it on your own, and tell her to do the same.

    If she's really as repentant as she acts, then she won't have any problem with that. Explain to her that you're taking time to your self to get your head clear. You'll soon realize that you either don't care that much about what she did, or that she's not worth the trouble.

    P.S. paragraphs are your friend if you want people to respond to your posts.
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    djlifeline

    djlifeline Well-Known Member

    I have had a lot of shit of my mind women wise lately and was going to post a similar women related thread. People here are nice and always here to listen for opinions or just to get stuff off your chest. But if been a few months and she cheated, you don't trust her no more (i know i wouldnt) then you got nothing else left mate. Everything happens for a reason.
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    Dizzle Frost

    Dizzle Frost Well-Known Member

    Women are like shoes...wear em out and get a new pair
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    ganjames

    ganjames Well-Known Member

    You should fuck her sister or something.
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    Dizzle Frost

    Dizzle Frost Well-Known Member

    id get her sister pregnant for extra good measure!
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    april

    april Pickle Queen

    Most only feel guilty when they get caught ;)
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    AltarNation

    AltarNation Well-Known Member


    *facepalm* Oh yeah, child support payments for teh win!!1 Nice avatar though. :)
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    Dizzle Frost

    Dizzle Frost Well-Known Member

    dam child support always gets in the way somehow :\

    make a sex tape with her sister and give it to the skank for xmas
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    jpill

    jpill Well-Known Member

    bust a fat nut in her face and say peace out bitch.. There's plenty of girls out there ! just cause your getting pussy from her doesn't mean you can't find it somewhere else.
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    W Dragon

    W Dragon Well-Known Member

    you can't leave her alone for 1 night without her cheating....... i think that in it's own right should answer any questions you have about her and her character, my vote is dump her now before you get settled in again and fall deeper for her and have it happen again.
    also after having a think about it for a minute are you sure it was the first time? because for him to say he thought you to were broken up implies to me that they have been talking prior to that night and she may have had him on standby so to speak either way it looks a little premeditated to me, and if she wasn't lining this other guy up it means she left work and picked up this guy up all within a couple of hours, taking him home etc which would make her a serious tramp in my eye's so either way i look at it she's either a player or a straight up tramp mate
    sorry if that's not what you wanted to hear mate but i can't really get anything else from the description you laid down for us
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    AltarNation

    AltarNation Well-Known Member

    Well said Dragon, some good points.
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    Winter Woman

    Winter Woman Well-Known Member

    Recognize her for what she is. Figure out what you truly want and don't settle for something less.

    You don't need someone who is perfect, just someone who is perfect for you.
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    Desr

    Desr Well-Known Member

    oh man... i wouldve beat thats kids ass. and i wouldve never spoke to her again..plenty of fish in the sea man.
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    sso

    sso Well-Known Member

    certainly does not sound like true love.

    the connection you speak of on the other hand and the way you describe how she clings to you, suggests that you might have been good friends if you hadnt let the sex get in the way.
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    sso

    sso Well-Known Member

    girls are more savvy in this (often without realising it :))

    at least deep down, she realises that you aint the one and is still looking.

    but connections like that are rare and she wants to hold on to that, good friends are hard to come by. (though i doubt she realises any of this consciously..you are probably the best guy she has found yet, by far, if she clings like that to you.)

    you aint quite the loser you say you are.
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    ganjames

    ganjames Well-Known Member

    I agree with desr on this one.

    Why did you leave out the part where you threw his ass down a flight of stairs?
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    a mongo frog

    a mongo frog Well-Known Member

    what did the kid do?
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    unohu69

    unohu69 Well-Known Member


    Just in case you forgot between the first post and the last, just a reminder.

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