Fellow stoner needs advice on big issue

Hey guys so i stopped smoking weed for awhile but lately i have restarted just as my way to deal with issues and kinda take my mind off them for a bit. but my girlfriend jsut broke up with me kinda, she said she needed a break to regather herself and get things back to normal for her, i support her in whatever she wants to do, i dont want to break up but its whatever.

im just wondering how to deal with her as just a friend when i see her ( almost everyday) and how to act around her cause itll be awkward but what should i do? just give her space or try to maintain the friendship and keep it there...

She broke up with you man. So since she is no longer your girlfriend you're gonna have to treat her as a friend. She will say like just some time off for a little while or some space for a bit but no you two are done...except for the occasionally drunken fuck.

bongedman929 said:

Hey guys so i stopped smoking weed for awhile but lately i have restarted just as my way to deal with issues and kinda take my mind off them for a bit. but my girlfriend jsut broke up with me kinda, she said she needed a break to regather herself and get things back to normal for her, i support her in whatever she wants to do, i dont want to break up but its whatever.

im just wondering how to deal with her as just a friend when i see her ( almost everyday) and how to act around her cause itll be awkward but what should i do? just give her space or try to maintain the friendship and keep it there...

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what ever your heart tells ya man. iv had quite a few girl friends and its easier in the long wrong to just stay awau and ignore them and get on with life. its hard to stay friends esp when they start seeing other men.. been single now for 6 years so i dont need to deal with what ur going through.. yes it would be nice at times to have one but in the long wrong i wont get so hurt. its hard to find someone who you will actually grow old with.

bongedman929 said:

Hey guys so i stopped smoking weed for awhile but lately i have restarted just as my way to deal with issues and kinda take my mind off them for a bit. but my girlfriend jsut broke up with me kinda, she said she needed a break to regather herself and get things back to normal for her, i support her in whatever she wants to do, i dont want to break up but its whatever.

im just wondering how to deal with her as just a friend when i see her ( almost everyday) and how to act around her cause itll be awkward but what should i do? just give her space or try to maintain the friendship and keep it there...

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i don't wanna break up,,but it's whatever,,,well you've lost right there,,,,if your in love,,you fight for what you love,,if she's whatever,,then post us a pic of your new girlfriend,,,,,if you got solid,,,why go to a soup sandwich,,what I'm sayin is if she's worth it,,wait till the end of days

lol that sucks but fuck her,just hit when you have the chance
it sounds like she brok e up wit you
fuck the saints!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1111111111111111111111111111111111

she said its just a break, and maybe she might not like it after a few days and get back together...all i gotta say is women are so fucking confusing

bongedman929 said:

she said its just a break, and maybe she might not like it after a few days and get back together...all i gotta say is women are so fucking confusing

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yes they are bongedman,,and they always will be

Just be cool. Dont let it eat at you or you will lose your cool believe me. And all women are manipulative. Some are worse than others and im not saying this in a bad way. I mean they know what they want and how to get it how can we blame them. She might be trying to tell you lots of things like she wants you to change,she wants more attention or shes tired of your stoner ass. It could be lots things youll have to read her to find out because asking will just piss her off more. Also dont try to tell her anything just listen it will get you alot farther. if you talk to her just ask her whats on her mind keep the conversation goin but keep it all about her. it wont be long and youll know the real deal. peace man and goodluck and remember BE COOL