baby needs to spread his wings... ect, ect,

ahhh, just in the zone for a little advice. say you had been dating a girl, oh about 4 years now it is. and to say the least... those 4 years have been great and i have had so much fun! but the lease is coming up in February and, ahhh, baby needs to spread his wings. ect, ect.

long story short...

weed is illegal here, legal there. and i want to go there. im only 19 so not, necessarily.. with her... ah gawd there's so many girls out there. any advice out there?

*pants like the dog he is"


sorry for the, 3rd person writing. having confidence issues about this

So you've been dating for 4 years, but you're "not necessarily" with her? And you live in different states?

I think I read something wrong.

i am with her living together. in the same house in mo. i would like to leave, not necessarily with her.

I know what you mean now. That's purely up to you man. It seems like you don't care THAT much about her if you are considering leaving without her.

Several things you might ask yourself before you take a step like that.
First off it won't legal for you personally until you're 21 years of age.
The most important issue would probably be a job. Got one there?
Or maybe you're just gonna grow and sell legal weed eh?
Then you'll be wanting to buy your own home so nobody can write some silly shit in the lease about not growing in the place.
If you don't have a lot of money in the bank I'd settle for Mo if I were you , you seem to be surviving there as you may find it more difficult wherever it is you're going.
The girl you're with now....well that's just inevitable , enjoy the temporary thing.

i do work yes, $11 an hour so not bad. i dont quite understand the 21 year old thing but i want to travel. live alone for awhile, i have a friend i can stay with in colorado. and save and travel the world. by bus train idc she is a major hassle. always complaining.

granted she has so much to offer i feel as tho im taking it all for granted now and she deserves better with someone content with a family because i dont want that.

i want to ultimately be a musician which i feel i can do very easily and i dont see much opportunity for her ultimately. yes now, she is emotional support. but financially and ultimately she is a burden. she loves me 10x more than i love her.

lol...

is that bad?

seems reasonable to me. Enjoy while you're young .

even if your girl is one in a million there are aprox 5 billion girls on the planet so it stands to reason there are about 5000 girls out there who are just as good. Don't let a woman hold you back from what you want to do

Do a test run to be sure, although you wanna go dip your whip now, you might miss her when you leave.. Yeah, there is a shit load of girls out there, not many are keepers though.

very true my friend

dont know if i'm even lookin for a keeper, ya digg?

sound advice you all. mad love. enjoying a steak right now.

Ive been.living with my girl for 2 years and I grow she gave me my first seeds...but bro I make 10.80 at my job of two years dont leave mo...im in wa and grow legally but who knows when u leave u may miss here I tried ending it but didnt

Dannoo93

Do whatever you want.

go have some fun! you only live once, enjoy it. don't have any regrets.