Growan
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Gonna have to go and edit my 'top 3' now. How did I forget...?
Gonna have to go and edit my 'top 3' now. How did I forget...?
Had a very brief email exchange recently. 'hi, how are you, blah, blah...' You, know.Leave it alone kill, why torture yourself?
Yeah when married ladies say that its a way to find out how much you are interested. Usually for her own ego. Like when guys say they are lonely or how lucky the woman's husband is to have her- one of those open ended statements with an unspoken need Behind it.Had a very brief email exchange recently. 'hi, how are you, blah, blah...' You, know.
Then she said she thinks of me often. I don't believe she's ever said that before.
Rock on
So how do you respond to theYeah when married ladies say that its a way to find out how much you are interested. Usually for her own ego. Like when guys say they are lonely or how lucky the woman's husband is to have her- one of those open ended statements with an unspoken need Behind it.
Bet you a dozen donuts she's putting feelers out.
And I remember the vhs beta thing (sort of) so that dates me LOL. older women are off? How so? Just curious. If someone told me I was off I'd likelyTake it as a compliment.
Hey chingown hope your day has been good,So how do you respond to the
Hi how are you today text?
Nah, no offense taken, broads are broads and ladies are ladies. I've got a pretty thick skin. I don't take myself too seriously to be offended by stereotypes, slurs, or generalizations. I can laugh at myself dude, so no worries,'older women are off?'
that's a pretty bold, blanket statementsand 'fighting words' to many women so I appreciate you bringing that to my attention.
fyi: you will frequently see me refer to 'broads' in posts. I am being facetious and self-mocking as I realize my generation of guys are 'off' in our own way on some issues. Hope I don't cause offense and if I do please feel free to say 'tone it down buddy'.
I guess i notice many women, and men for that matter, hit 40 with serious baggage. My theory is that if not jettisoned, some at least, people become hardened, unapproachable, etc. I think that the baggage that's a problem is specific to the dreaded 'r' word (relationships). In some ways the female ego seems more pronounced, at least to me, in women in this age range who have made no/little effort at emotional housecleaning. I can just feel their underlying 'seething' ('if only men were the way i think they should be'-when actually, they are not honest with themselves re:flaws and bad choices).
I may have just dug myself a big hole in the ground. Perhaps i see it this way as I have been culturally conditioned. not sure. no one is truly objective, myself included. I've just noticed a big difference in women of different age groups: younger ones come across a certain way while the ones in my age group seem quite different. I can see 40'ish women evaluating myself, and other men they are interested in, in a way that I sometimes find disturbing. Maybe it's me. Not sure.
I may have opened a can of worms here. Just for the record, would feel like i was settling by being with a younger women, in some ways, as i really want a girlfriend who shares common reference points with me. I don't want to be 'that guy' if I can avoid it but may very well end up there.
p.s. I've 'random rambled' enough today. hope i don't get an avalanche of pm's from mods telling me to head over to Dr. Phil. lol
I can see the comments now: way to deep dude. stfu. wait! what? you on your period bro? etc. Too late now (presses post)
Stop being so cool.Nah, no offense taken, broads are broads and ladies are ladies. I've got a pretty thick skin. I don't take myself too seriously to be offended by stereotypes, slurs, or generalizations. I can laugh at myself dude, so no worries,
Ok, TRUE DAT about women and 40 and baggage. We all have baggage by our 40's, it's just that let's face it, women are viewed as useless by our culture by age 35-40 and men aren't. simple as that. and the reason our egos may seem more pronounced is likely because by 40 our time is short. And we get pissy about that. If you don't believe me then why are older men/younger women so prolific but the opposite is exceedingly rare?
So as women we feel this pressure. (Meryl Streep said it best in her speech from August Osage County) and some become bitter about it. We are judged by out looks mainly as men are by their success/$$ plain and simple.
YOu are spot on she you say that people (not just women) are miserable by this age because they haven't done any emotional housecleaning. THIS is why we have so much baggage at this age. Because we never cleaned house. Both literally and figuratively. I mean, look at most of our garages. We have so much "stuff". Same w/ our psyche, a lot of "stuff"
And if one isn't careful, one's life becomes all about managing their "stuff" instead of just living in the present.
You're drunk, you've got your cool goggles onStop being so cool.
You're drunk, you've got your cool goggles on
Very incisive. Everything. It's really a shame because many women have befriended me and taught me a great deal. I agree that the culture is unfair in so many ways. Not sure that Angelina kicking ass is a solution but she is free to do so.Nah, no offense taken, broads are broads and ladies are ladies. I've got a pretty thick skin. I don't take myself too seriously to be offended by stereotypes, slurs, or generalizations. I can laugh at myself dude, so no worries,
And if one isn't careful, one's life becomes all about managing their "stuff" instead of just living in the present.
nutes is more fun. i think he's in catatonic shock or something
he was convinced i was buck. tormenting him via a cell phone account.it was fucking priceless!!
he was convinced i was buck. tormenting him via a cell phone account.it was fucking priceless!!