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[mr sunshine]

Making someone leave an internet site because of too much trolling is one thing.

Harassing a mentally ill person so much that they take their own life, is quite another.

I don't fucking care how annoying you are. My stupid heart bleeds for those in need of a talk, or help.

Fucking East Cost parents and their emotional availability.

CUNTS.

Mentally ill people should stick to real life and stay off the Internet. False reality is very unhealthy for people with depression problems. If someone kills themselves because of something some fat guy on a computer said I blame the family.... shouldn't have let your retarded son spend most of their time on the Internet Should have paid more attention. In my opinion, if you're going to commit suicide because of what some stranger said you were eventually going to do it anyways.

 

[Flaming Pie]

Do what? Like that's really even an option. Go get a job!

ALSO - start learning how to smile, it's not difficult, but you don't know how to smile.

Connections with people make me smile. Find what you enjoy @Iloveskywalkerog and run with it. I found the more I secluded myself the less I smiled.

Experience life. Hug your mom, tell your siblings you care for them, help someone in need. Learn to empathize with the pain and joy of others.

That will lead to happiness.

 

[Flaming Pie]

Mentally ill people should stick to real life and stay off the Internet. False reality is very unhealthy for people with depression problems. If someone kills themselves because of something some fat guy on a computer said I blame the family.... shouldn't have let your retarded son spend most of their time on the Internet Should have paid more attention. In my opinion, if you're going to commit suicide because of what some stranger said you were eventually going to do it anyways.

True, but everyone on this forum should have a loved one that has depression.

We should be able to tell the retards (not by birth but by choice) from the people who have legitimate mental problems.

 

[Flaming Pie]

I mean FUCK. Most of us know someone with cancer, missing limbs, loss of loved ones... That brings depression.

Now imagine having that feeling ALL THE FUCKING TIME. You know it's not rational but you cannot shake it no matter how much you tell yourself things are ok. That is clinical depression.

 

[mr sunshine]

True, but everyone on this forum should have a loved one that has depression.

We should be able to tell the retards (not by birth but by choice) from the people who have legitimate mental problems.

I agree, beautiful!

 

[Indagrow]

Bmi 31 !? Maybe they don't like mouth breathers. Go into manual labor man, seriously. It will help with your clear lack of motivation, I have no sympathy for the fat and lazy just none what so ever. Do you get that white shit in the corners of your mouth with all that heavy breathing.



Useless.

 

[Growan]

...in case anybody was wondering, Mainliner is alive and well and says 'Hi!'

Jesse. For the love of god man, pick yourself up, brush yourself off, stop using failure as an excuse to fail and go and achieve something. Anything. Then build on that achievement.

 

[Yessica...]

Mentally ill people should stick to real life and stay off the Internet. False reality is very unhealthy for people with depression problems. If someone kills themselves because of something some fat guy on a computer said I blame the family.... shouldn't have let your retarded son spend most of their time on the Internet Should have paid more attention. In my opinion, if you're going to commit suicide because of what some stranger said you were eventually going to do it anyways.

I do agree with this.

I stayed away from here when my brain went south.

Because when I'm depressed, EVERYTHING IS NEGATIVE.

Good thing I got my cock-gobbling self back!

 

[mr sunshine]

I mean FUCK. Most of us know someone with cancer, missing limbs, loss of loved ones... That brings depression.

Now imagine having that feeling ALL THE FUCKING TIME. You know it's not rational but you cannot shake it no matter how much you tell yourself things are ok. That is clinical depression.

I know many depressed people some are family members. I can't tell you how many times I've been blamed for others people's misery. I've been threw it enough to know that it can't possibly be my fault. I came to terms with the fact that some people enjoy being sick. Most do nothing to help themselves except complain and make things up in their head.. completely irrational. I went from hugs to shut up already your ruining my life. My advice for anyone affecting people around them with their emotions is suck it up and talk to a professional. Only you can help yourself.and when it does get really bad think of other people instead of feeling sorry for yourself.

 

[Yessica...]

I know many depressed people some are family members. I can't tell you how many times I've been blamed for others people's misery. I've been threw it enough to know that it can't possibly be my fault. I came to terms with the fact that some people enjoy being sick. Most do nothing to help themselves except complain and make things up in their head.. completely irrational. I went from hugs to shut up already your ruining my life. My advice for anyone affecting people around them with their emotions is suck it up and talk to a professional. Only you can help yourself.and when it does get really bad think of other people instead of feeling sorry for yourself.

AGree.

I don't know why some people get depressed and take it out on others.

When I get depressed, I don't say SHIT. Like literally I stop talking.

And I always blame myself.

The worst part, is it's all in your head. But I convince myself, that I can't get help, that wont get better, and that everyone I know would be better off without me.

Totally fucked up. I know.

 

[Hazydat620]

Join the Marines you pussy. They won't fire you for your lack of effort, they will motivate you to push yourself harder than you ever knew was possible. Make sure you're clean or all the hard work will be for nothing when they kick you out after 2 months. They'll will find out whats wrong with you, and fix it, and pay you to do it. Enjoy your vacation, make sure you tell them Parris Island for boot camp, don't let them talk you out of it. San Diego has just as much sand if not more. Life so far has been such a fail for you, get a win in life under your belt. Do it, or you're just a scared bitch.

 

[mr sunshine]

AGree.

I don't know why some people get depressed and take it out on others.

When I get depressed, I don't say SHIT. Like literally I stop talking.

And I always blame myself.

The worst part, is it's all in your head. But I convince myself, that I can't get help, that wont get better, and that everyone I know would be better off without me.

Totally fucked up. I know.

When people I love say that to me. I tell them that life's short and they should wait it out. It's eventually going to happen anyway. to many people are going to be affected because you didn't have the patience and strength to wait it out. get out of your own head and think of others, don't you get tired of thinking of yourself all day?









Yes I know I'm a dick..

 

[Yessica...]

When people I love say that to me. I tell them that life's short and they should wait it out. It's eventually going to happen anyway. to many people are going to be affected because you didn't have the patience and strength to wait it out. get out of your own head and think of others, don't you get tired of thinking of yourself all day?









Yes I know I'm a dick..

I could make your skin crawl with the thoughts that would go through my mind.

Some seriously messed up shit. The only way to "turn it off" was to sleep, or to watch hours and hours of mind-numbing televison. Other than that, I would cry.

All I had to do is get help, and stop doing what I was dong. And eventually, I did.

But FUCK me if I wasn't 100% positive that it would never get better.

It's called the "negative thinking loop".

You've seen me. I have a shit-eaters grin on my face 24/7. Sometme in January I looked in the mirror, and realized it had been months, and I meant MONTHS since I had really smiled and meant it.

No one could know to look at me. I have become so good at faking it over my life, that it's scary.

But, getting help was the way to go.

Beeeeeeeeeewwwwwwwwop!

 

[Yessica...]

@mr sunshine , you're not a dick. You just don't understand.

It's a very difficult thing to understand if you have never been through the kind of clinical depression. Situational depression is different.

Imagine only having bad feelings. Always. And nothing that you used to love you even enjoy anymore. Some things, you start to hate.

I hated music, talking, being around people, eating, everything loved I started to hate.

That's the best way I can describe it. Probably still don't get it because you're a happy little bird with a BIG SWINGING DICK.

hahahaha

 

[BDOGKush]

Join the Marines you pussy. They won't fire you for your lack of effort, they will motivate you to push yourself harder than you ever knew was possible. Make sure you're clean or all the hard work will be for nothing when they kick you out after 2 months. They'll will find out whats wrong with you, and fix it, and pay you to do it. Enjoy your vacation, make sure you tell them Parris Island for boot camp, don't let them talk you out of it. San Diego has just as much sand if not more. Life so far has been such a fail for you, get a win in life under your belt. Do it, or you're just a scared bitch.

Did you miss the post about him being 5'6" with a BMI of 31? He probably wouldn't meet the weight standards.

 

[Hazydat620]

Did you miss the post about him being 5'6" with a BMI of 31? He probably wouldn't meet the weight standards.

Nothing a waiver and a few months in the DEP won't fix.

 

[Flaming Pie]

I know many depressed people some are family members. I can't tell you how many times I've been blamed for others people's misery. I've been threw it enough to know that it can't possibly be my fault. I came to terms with the fact that some people enjoy being sick. Most do nothing to help themselves except complain and make things up in their head.. completely irrational. I went from hugs to shut up already your ruining my life. My advice for anyone affecting people around them with their emotions is suck it up and talk to a professional. Only you can help yourself.and when it does get really bad think of other people instead of feeling sorry for yourself.

Most definitely it is not okay to take your depression out on others.

It is an odd feeling to know you are fucked in the head tho. It can be embarrassing to admit fault in taking it out on others because you don't want to appear weak.

Only by showing and accepting (and apologizing for) your weaknesses can you begin to grow. It is just hard to take the first step.

 

[Flaming Pie]

Suggesting the marines for someone with motivation problems is NOT a good idea.

My husband had motivation problems and became a bitter person and hung out with other bitter marines and ended up getting a OTH discharge.

The guy has admitted to having rage issues as well, my husband was very passive aggressive and that led to it as well.

Noone without sound mind should join the military to attempt to "fix" themselves. It will not work.

 

[Diabolical666]

ok tl:dr...ok, maybe i read some of your op , pins and sunshines posts. Here goes:
If you want something bad enough in life it DOES NOT COME EASY! You will have a fuckton of setbacks and obstacles constantly getting in your way. Now, if your brain is wired somewhat correctly...you will learn from those mistakes and your brain becomes stronger and more adaptable to situations. Get it together mijo
Mama Dia

 

[Hazydat620]

Suggesting the marines for someone with motivation problems is NOT a good idea.

My husband had motivation problems and became a bitter person and hung out with other bitter marines and ended up getting a OTH discharge.

The guy has admitted to having rage issues as well, my husband was very passive aggressive and that led to it as well.

Noone without sound mind should join the military to attempt to "fix" themselves. It will not work.

So you think it is a mental problem that has got him fired from 8 jobs before he is 20? Maybe no one has given him a fair chance so far . Maybe his best just isn't good enough right now, and it's not a motivation issue. To claim that a teenager who doesn't exactly know what motivation really is right now is going to end up like your husband if they join the Marines is unfair. I suspect your husbands problems stem from a few other issues than his motivation and long before joining the Marines, like some you already alluded to.