Problem Solved, I hope this helps future or other beginner grows, so if you are please read!!!
I got a ppm meter, my ppm was 180, my tap water is 100 so I was only at 80ppm!!!!
I have been starving it it's whole life, go figure, somehow it still survived lol
I have now been raising ppms up to 600 so everything is going much better now, all the leaves propped on up, curles on the tips of some leaves are still there but as i've read if a leaf gets damage they don't really recover. I kind of like how it grew out though because of the starving it seems to be on the short end with millions of branches.
Only thing is I got a pest problem now, but grabbed some sm90 from the store and sprayed em down. Hopefully that will solve that.