Should I feel guilty.

Thomasgreen80

Thomasgreen80

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Me and my gf have been together for a year and a half and I realize it should end. She is a great person and I don't want to hurt her. We just got a dog she had been wanting for a while and I feel like I'm ending her life. I'm not attracted to her at all and our sex is bland. We are really good friends and she says we can remain that way. It's so depressing thinking I'm being a bad guy but I think it would be worse to stay in this just for the sake of keeping things going and it potentially turning toxic. I am starting to really lust after the single life and I know the grass isn't always greener and that ill miss the companionship. Any advice or encouragement would be appreciated. Thanks fellow growers.
 
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mainliner

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i know this may come off as a selfish pleasure seeker,,,,,,,but in my life,( and iv thought like this for long time) do what makes you feel happy, if you are not happy doing something ,DONT FUCKIN DO IT!! then you will be happy,, never do anything in life that makes you unhappy, if someone says ""sometimes in life young mainy you've got to do things , you don't want to do"" i thought BULLSHIT not in my fuckin life, , I WANT TO BE HAPPY,,------do what makes you feel happy Thomas???
 
Thomasgreen80

Thomasgreen80

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Thanks for the uplifting words! Really! We talked shortly after my post and she said she would always be my friend no matter what. I told her I would hold her to it!
 
Mr. Bongwater

Mr. Bongwater

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Thomasgreen80 said:
Me and my gf have been together for a year and a half and I realize it should end. She is a great person and I don't want to hurt her. We just got a dog she had been wanting for a while and I feel like I'm ending her life. I'm not attracted to her at all and our sex is bland. We are really good friends and she says we can remain that way. It's so depressing thinking I'm being a bad guy but I think it would be worse to stay in this just for the sake of keeping things going and it potentially turning toxic. I am starting to really lust after the single life and I know the grass isn't always greener and that ill miss the companionship. Any advice or encouragement would be appreciated. Thanks fellow growers.
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one night when your drunk your gonna call her up and try to get her back, i guarantee you.
 
TakeTheTicket

TakeTheTicket

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What makes you realize it should end? Get those "fantasy wives" out of your head because thats all they are. A real woman is one that is supportive, always there for you, and will put up with all your dumb shit. You can talk about anything with a real woman, argue about anything, and tell her exactly how you feel... and she'll still love you. I don't know this girl, but you better really consider what she has to offer before you give it all up
 
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mainliner

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TakeTheTicket said:
What makes you realize it should end? Get those "fantasy wives" out of your head because thats all they are. A real woman is one that is supportive, always there for you, and will put up with all your dumb shit. You can talk about anything with a real woman, argue about anything, and tell her exactly how you feel... and she'll still love you. I don't know this girl, but you better really consider what she has to offer before you give it all up
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can i get an AMEN!!
 
swaggersDlite

swaggersDlite

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Thats really awesome that you two will stay friends. My best friend and his ex went through a break up it was pretty ugly. All of a sudden there friends again they do a lot a cool shit with none of the drama anymore its pretty cool . not ganna lie im a bit jelly of that. none of my ex'es and me are friends today. Good luck to you and your now ex lady. enjoy your freedom :fire:
 
TakeTheTicket

TakeTheTicket

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swaggersDlite said:
Thats really awesome that you two will stay friends. My best friend and his ex went through a break up it was pretty ugly. All of a sudden there friends again they do a lot a cool shit with none of the drama anymore its pretty cool . not ganna lie im a bit jelly of that. none of my ex'es and me are friends today. Good luck to you and your now ex lady. enjoy your freedom :fire:
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There's no future in that. Any self-respecting man wouldn't allow his lady to go running around with other men. Especially ex-boyfriends. In my experience, when a woman says she still wants to be friends after a breakup it's usually because she's leaving room for a second chance at a relationship. Then again I haven't met every woman on earth.
 
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mainliner

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TakeTheTicket said:
There's no future in that. Any self-respecting man wouldn't allow his lady to go running around with other men. Especially ex-boyfriends. In my experience, when a woman says she still wants to be friends after a breakup it's usually because she's leaving room for a second chance at a relationship. Then again I haven't met every woman on earth.
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that's because your on here too much,lol
 
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mainliner

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swaggersDlite said:
Men an women can be friends no matter what.

you should still be taking your lady on dates and hella be flirting with her especially after 12 years of being down with you.
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a ma can bs freinds with a woman,,,,,BULLSHIT YOUD RATHER FUCK EM!! friends huh , what r u a rose grower! Lollol
 
TakeTheTicket

TakeTheTicket

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swaggersDlite said:
Men an women can be friends no matter what.

you should still be taking your lady on dates and hella be flirting with her especially after 12 years of being down with you.
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If you're a man and you let your lady go runnin around with other men, you're either a fool or you're naive.

Dates? flirting? Learn the English language and recognize the context of my message. I was obviously talking about flirting with other women and dating other women.
 
swaggersDlite

swaggersDlite

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TakeTheTicket said:
If you're a man and you let your lady go runnin around with other men, you're either a fool or you're naive.

Dates? flirting? Learn the English language and recognize the context of my message. I was obviously talking about flirting with other women and dating other women.
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calm down, i was playing around saying it in a bit gangsta monotone, but what ever boy.

mainliner said:
a ma can bs freinds with a woman,,,,,BULLSHIT YOUD RATHER FUCK EM!! friends huh , what r u a rose grower! Lollol
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There are some you wouldn't fuck. at least i wouldn't, but i got a lady and i a faithful dog, so why can't you be friends with a lady with out fucking them ? I said be friends not go Fishing...lol
 
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