how do i make my ex a friend with beneft?

NoobgrowerLbc · Jan 19, 2014

She broke up with me after 1 month saying she not ready for relationship but still want me in her life so she want to be friends. yesterday i came over and we hug and kiss in bed, she still let me grab her breast and i even and my hand above her vag. No resistant but i didnt go further becuase i was tryin to get back with her. How do i be friends with benefits? Do i mention it or just do it?

Now that i think about it im not trying to get back but make her a friend with benefit till something better comes along.

curious2garden · Jan 19, 2014

NoobgrowerLbc said:
She broke up with me after 1 month saying she not ready for relationship but still want me in her life so she want to be friends. yesterday i came over and we hug and kiss in bed, she still let me grab her breast and i even and my hand above her vag. No resistant but i didnt go further becuase i was tryin to get back with her. How do i be friends with benefits? Do i mention it or just do it?

Now that i think about it im not trying to get back but make her a friend with benefit till something better comes along.

Stop using people.

ginwilly · Jan 19, 2014

I've been there and thought I had the perfect plan.

I told her that I realize now I was confusing lust with love. I said the sex was so good that I realized I wanted more of it. The way it made me feel to be with her was unlike anything I had ever experienced and I confused that new feeling with love.

It didn't work for me, but surely one of them will fall for it ;-)

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Good luck man, oh, and you can't "make" a woman do anything. She'll have to think it's her idea to work.

gioua · Jan 19, 2014

curious2garden said:
Stop using people.

dang adults ruin everything!

chewberto · Jan 19, 2014

I usually grab the girls hand and put it on my wiener! If she pulls her hand away, you just found out that she will not be of any benefit to you! Good luck friend

NoobgrowerLbc · Jan 19, 2014

So do i just act normal and do her?

420God · Jan 19, 2014

Show her how you feel and see what happens.

chewberto · Jan 19, 2014

Not unless she keeps her hand on your wiener!

Farmer's Hat · Jan 19, 2014

Just pipe her down. Your overthinking it

ebgood · Jan 19, 2014

Cut her off. Ignoring a girl is the quickest way to get in her sometimes

Or just cut her off, keep her cut off and find new willing pussy

chewberto · Jan 19, 2014

Nobody trying to commit murder bro! ^^^^

blowincherrypie · Jan 19, 2014

NoobgrowerLbc said:
we hug and kiss in bed, she still let me grab her breast and i even and my hand above her vag. No resistant but i didnt go further becuase i was tryin to get back with her.

I'm confused.. What you're describing is a friend without any real benefit.

Shoulda finger banged her (what movie was that from??) lol

BarnBuster · Jan 19, 2014

Would this be the same person?:

NoobgrowerLbc said:
First date i went on with her I kissed her on the cheek. Second date i kissed her on the lips and third date we started making out. I have been seeing and talking to her daily and day 4 we started acting like a couple by calling each other babe and cuddling. she starting to buy me stuff like small surprises like food,drinks,gloves. she feels we moving too fast because we only known each other for 8 days. yesterday after we went out I forgot to text her before sleeping and she started acting bitchy the next day. keep in mind i havent asked her to be my girlfriend yet.

sunni said:
you sound like youre 15

Unclebaldrick · Jan 19, 2014

chewberto said:
I usually grab the girls hand and put it on my wiener! If she pulls her hand away.....

Then she's obviously a lesbian.

ebgood · Jan 19, 2014

chewberto said:
Nobody trying to commit murder bro! ^^^^

I said off not up lol

redeyedfrog · Jan 19, 2014

next time do her and then dont call, when she finally gets unto you tell her your confused and dont know what you want...
same shit shes pulling basically

Unclebaldrick · Jan 19, 2014

BarnBuster said:
Would this be the same person?:

We Demand Pictures! How dare you young man? Do you know we've been up night and day to find out what happened with your crazy racing gas girlfriend? And you start a new thread! Look what you're doing to your father!

vostok · Jan 19, 2014

how do i make my ex a friend with beneft? ...easy pay her ! ....lol include a tip ...lol

giggles26 · Jan 20, 2014

You make sure that you are at least 18 years old....

SunnyJim · Jan 20, 2014

I can't help but feel you wouldn't be in this 'friend-zone' predicament if you had simply followed my advice in your previous thread:

https://www.rollitup.org/toke-n-talk/764767-am-i-moving-too-fast.html

SunnyJim said:
On your next date, go for broke and show her your junk. You might want to throw in an ice cold one-liner too, like: "Is this slow enough for you?" Wait a couple seconds, then hit her with a wink .

As luck would have it, the universe has aligned on a cosmic level or whatever, and you're in a prime position to effectuate my earlier suggestion. Go for the 'Naked Man' approach. Chicks really dig dudes who hang their balls out there.

Ladies, back me up.

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