I don't have a "side". Morality is subjective. One man may consider an honor killing a moral and just act. While another may find that abhorrent. I can only follow my own moral compass which has a heavy Mormon influence. I consider myself a Christian. Others will say I'm not. Who cares? I live my life with strong ethics instilled by two loving and accepting parents. I do my best to stay in line with the teachings of my faith. I may drink a bit and cuss a LOT and occasionally I'll get a little risqué. But I have a strong foundation and at my age I don't worry about straying too much.
As to what others do? It's not my place to judge. Only a mind reader can truly understand the motivation and needs of others. An evil man can do a just act. A just man can do an evil act. It depends on the circumstances. I leave the judging to my imaginary sky god and hope for the best. I follow the path of free agency. I live my life to my moral standards without interfering with the free agency of others.
Maybe I do have a side.... hmmm.....