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I have a few questions regarding my little girl (hopefully). this is my first grow and it is less than ideal conditions. It is a soil plant, in MG moisture lock soil (i know... i know). and i don't think that my ph meter is any good because it reads all over the place today it was at 3.2 yesterday 9.7- kinda drastic without any watering lol. so- here are my questions and sorry about the crappy pic quality, they were taken with a cell phone. the pic of the plant that looks the largest was taken today- is this a normal growth rate for 2.5 weeks under flouros?(kept about 1-1.5 inches away from 6500k bulbs) does everything look like it is in order? please please please tell me of any problems you see. also- the edges of my leaves have been turning lighter than the rest of the plant and the leaves are curling a little- what is this? is it ph or MG's crappy fert setup or just me being paranoid? also- a few days ago i found 2 horseflies on my plant- don't know where the little bastards came from but they were quickly dispatched to the big dumpster in the sky. where they were sitting however has a small brown mark and a few yellow dots- did they hurt my baby? will I have to declare war on all winged insects after this? Thanks alot for the help, i really appreciate it.

would it be a good idea to try and transplant into real soil at this point? if she does turn out to be a fem- i just plant on turning her into a clone machine. I am going to grow the clones hydroponically, but not until after I move into my new house- (more room, less neighbors) I just had to plant this one in the hopes that she will be female and I will have a head start on my clones when i move- Gotta keep this one alive though. Should I be letting the plant get taller? moving it a little further away from the light?