Starting over.. Few questions

1. Is it like a 50 50 chance if its gonna be a male or female?
2. Im on a tight budget right now, what light bulbs should i get?
3. Can more then one plant be in a large pot?
4. How should a fan system be set up?

1. pretty much
2. i would go with an hps even with a tight budget but if you can only afford a $10 or so here and there you can use cfl's and just add more as the plant gets bigger...i recommend hps though
3. i wouldnt put more then one plant in a pot because the roots can get tangled together
4. you should have a fan blowing on the plants to strengthen their stems but you shoud also use a fan to help keep your grow room about 75-85 degrees.

i also recommend for you to read the "how to grow marijuana" sticky.

just watch this video (all 7 parts)
YouTube - Broadcast Yourself.