Just read your follow up post. In your first post it sounded like you were concerned about the cops kicking your door down.
If you send it to your address with a fake name wouldn't the cops still kick your door down?
If you sent it to your name and a friend's address wouldn't the cops kick your buddy's door down?
If you sent it to a fake name and fake address you aren't going to get any seeds.
PO Box is an option, but you'll need an ID to open it. So then you'd either have to get a fake ID past a federal postal worker or attach your name to it and use your real ID, which has your physical address on it.
I guess bottom line if you're worried about the cops taking it or finding it but letting it go through and then busting you, then get something locally with no paper trail