Please help me

Tragic420

Tragic420

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I don't really know what to say. I met my gf online over 5 years ago, almost 6. I lived in Florida she lived in Michigan after knowing and dating each other online for a year, we decided to be together in person. I now have been in Michigan for going on 4 years. I love her with all my heart and soul. I am 32 (just turned) and she is going on 45. She has the best heart of a woman of any woman that i have ever met. She thinks im wasting my life on her. Thinks that i could do better with a younger women. She thinks i can have kids of my own with a younger woman. To a point i almost agree, yea i could have kids with a younger woman, but i love her with every heart beat i have. I love her enough that im willing to not have kids of my own. (she says she is not fixed). Im willing to live my whole life with this woman. What should i do? i probably left some things out here im not sure, cant think strait atm.
 
I think you stay with her, you will be lost if you leave and she hooks up with some bozo. As for the kids adopt a baby from india and call it apoo.
 
Tragic420 said:
I don't really know what to say. I met my gf online over 5 years ago, almost 6. I lived in Florida she lived in Michigan after knowing and dating each other online for a year, we decided to be together in person. I now have been in Michigan for going on 4 years. I love her with all my heart and soul. I am 32 (just turned) and she is going on 45. She has the best heart of a woman of any woman that i have ever met. She thinks im wasting my life on her. Thinks that i could do better with a younger women. She thinks i can have kids of my own with a younger woman. To a point i almost agree, yea i could have kids with a younger woman, but i love her with every heart beat i have. I love her enough that im willing to not have kids of my own. (she says she is not fixed). Im willing to live my whole life with this woman. What should i do? i probably left some things out here im not sure, cant think strait atm.
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My sister was in the same position as you, she met her current husband four years ago she was 60 and he was 35 they had been friends or a while but he wanted more, but she refused she told him she didn't want to ruin his life. He was very persistent and they started a relationship, it progressed quite quickly and he asked her to marry him she kept saying no because he would make a good dad and she could never give him children. Eventually she greed to marry him, they are very happy together and she has two daughters from a previous marriage and although the one is older than him they get on fine. Just hang on in their and let know how much you love her she will soon see you mean it. Good luck
 
She is just trying to see life from your angle, she wants you to be sure, before the next step is taken in your relationship...
Forget about the age... If you only have eyes for her, then enjoy what your eyes see... There's an old folks home near by, it has a 90% rate for females in the home, because women live longer...
She wants to make sure you are happy...
Be Happy...
 
Sand4x105 said:
She is just trying to see life from your angle, she wants you to be sure, before the next step is taken in your relationship...
Forget about the age... If you only have eyes for her, then enjoy what your eyes see... There's an old folks home near by, it has a 90% rate for females in the home, because women live longer...
She wants to make sure you are happy...
Be Happy...
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I have been thinking about volenteering at the old folks home for just this reason, I like older women and there are lots of single ladies there. I love old ladies and i'm looking to marry rich.
 
this is really hurting me bad. when she told me this stuff on the phone this morning, tears instantly fell from my eyes. i asked if we could please talk about it when she got home.........its tearing me up inside
 
The best advice I could offer is to follow your heart.
If love leads you to her, then it is probably meant to be.


BTW, I'm older than my wife by a fair bit & it is not an issue for us.
 
Youll be fine dude, ive been there dating almost exclusively cougars. Ive had the same exact talks. It will work out, tell her what you want, and if what you wabt is her, it will work out, i promise.
 
omg im crying again........ i really appreciate all the advice. for the last year before i came up to mi. i was hard on meth. even through the high, through the weeks of staying awake, i still was the happiest person alive when i got to talk to her on the phone. was up for 2 weeks when i got on the greyhound.
 
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