Ya bigger is better in terms of the cfl. Those little ones are ok for the first couple weeks but if you want to flower youll need much larger ones and a few of them.
The one piece of advice that will get you farther than any posted above is, read and research. Asking to be spoon fed leaves you at the mercy of the advice given to you.
For example, the advice to not go with ffof on your first grow and go soiless in my opinion is crazy. That would mean that being a noob your expected to know the proper feed, and dosage to feed your plant at every stage of development. Pffffff....youll mess it up. On the other hand, ffof will allow you to not have to touch a fertilizer bottle for the first month or more and then use lower than recommended doses after that since the soil has lots of nutrients already in it. Thats easy growing. Letting the soil grow the plants, not the nutrients. Read kid. Find out for yourself, dont trust internet banter.