My girlfriends a bitch

valuablevariable

valuablevariable

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Shes turned into a real unreasonable bitch since she started working this summer. I had to say it to someone so it came out here. Ive basically told her, and i think she basically agrees but in one of those "im stressed out 24/7 because i need to do so much work shit that i have the right to be like this" kind of way.
God it sucks dick, no need to simply post "break up with her", i know thats the easiest thing to reply. Dont know what kind of reply if any id even hope for, just needed to get that out.
 
tell her you gotta seperate that shit work ends when you walk out that building . i never bring home my stress to my gf and in turn she doesnt bring it to me so let her know work is simply one aspect of her life and should not control her emotional well being
 
rezo said:
tell her you gotta seperate that shit work ends when you walk out that building . i never bring home my stress to my gf and in turn she doesnt bring it to me so let her know work is simply one aspect of her life and should not control her emotional well being
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id say shes on the border to being schitzophrenic, wenn shes pissed shes not herself. but for several weeks now shes been generally more pissed than normal so i harldy see her as herself anymore
 
valuablevariable said:
Shes turned into a real unreasonable bitch since she started working this summer. I had to say it to someone so it came out here. Ive basically told her, and i think she basically agrees but in one of those "im stressed out 24/7 because i need to do so much work shit that i have the right to be like this" kind of way.
God it sucks dick, no need to simply post "break up with her", i know thats the easiest thing to reply. Dont know what kind of reply if any id even hope for, just needed to get that out.
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Its easy to say, "tell her to leave it at work". You'll find that in healthy relationships there is a lot of understanding between two people. A lot of give and take.

Forgive me if I'm being too personal but do you two live together and how much do you work?
 
GarryFroker said:
Its easy to say, "tell her to leave it at work". You'll find that in healthy relationships there is a lot of understanding between two people. A lot of give and take.

Forgive me if I'm being too personal but do you two live together and how much do you work?
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No we dont live together, she gets up at 5AM, gets back at 5PM and goes to sleep at 8 or 9PM again, mo-fri
 
How about this. Take her dinner tonight, Rub her back...treat her, and maybe you'll make some headway. Sometimes as men we gotta just suck it up, and rise above the BS.
 
GarryFroker said:
Ok, but what do YOU do?

If I had to work 12 hours a day I would think my girlfriend would be a little understanding.
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Oh hell i understand, i really do. Id be there waiting to give her a nice massage when she gets back but its more like if i didnt do everything i could then shes pissed off, rather than her being greatful that im doing it. That and she completly doesnt see anything i do for her but sees everything i could have done but didnt.
I continue to put up with it because she wasnt really like that before and can only hope something gets better after shes done working in summer.
 
valuablevariable said:
Oh hell i understand, i really do. Id be there waiting to give her a nice massage when she gets back but its more like if i didnt do everything i could then shes pissed off, rather than her being greatful that im doing it. That and she completly doesnt see anything i do for her.
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That's women for you bro.
 
valuablevariable said:
Oh hell i understand, i really do. Id be there waiting to give her a nice massage when she gets back but its more like if i didnt do everything i could then shes pissed off, rather than her being greatful that im doing it. That and she completly doesnt see anything i do for her but sees everything i could have done but didnt.
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I guess it depends on if you want her around or not. I'm gathering from the fact that you won't give up how much YOU work that you are in a better position than she is. In which case, if you wanted to be with her you would try to help her out. And it sounds like you're trying. If you want her keep being understanding to the best of your ability. If not, move on.
 
my girlfriend had a very stressful job over the summer. she ran a business for four weeks while a family friend was on vacation. it was a cleaning service. she was getting phone calls constantly from 6 am to 11 pm every day. she had to so much work, I was really impressed...but she was getting pissy too. every time she got upset I'd just hug her and hold her for a while, say the right thing to calm her down. and sex helps.
 
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