yea i see that but its like you said not a banana now if you watch it and it splits up into bananas than its a male but untile then i would leave it untill it shows for sure, ive seen manny plants look like they were comeing up male then pop them hairs out... point im makeing is dnt cut a plant down until your sure, i wouldnt cut that plant down, i would wait a week and see how it develops it looks big for a male flower. would suck if it was female not herm and it got cut down b4 getting a chance to develop enuff to accuratly sex but thats just what i would do from my experiance.