my whole family knows... none of them smoke except for one, but they respect me and my decisions... my grandpa even gives me general advice... and my one friend knows... but i would trust him with my life and my wife... no worries out of any of them. hell, the neighbors probably know, as this grow has been sitting out in the backyard.. but they are family too, and could care less... if i was selling, that may be a different story, but they know i keep to myself and bother nobody; as long as it doesnt interfere with their life, they dont give a damn what goes on next door... good thing about living in the country.. everyone at least has a family member that grows a little weed outside around here, just nobody talks about it unless it gets to be a problem.