My 8th grader knows I smoke MJ, always has. He doesn't know that I smoke cigs. He's never seen me smoke either, but we've talked about it. He knows I want him to wait until adulthood to smoke MJ or drink alcohol, but he knows MJ is much safer and even has health benefits. I think we both know that I'm not stupid and that he'll probably do these things WAY earlier, just as I did. Years from now, I'm looking forward to sharing the MJ experience with him...