purplekitty7772008
Well-Known Member
Ok people.
I live with my grandparents, but my grandpa has this friend
that is ALWAYS bumming off of us. I mean, here are the bad things
-Drinks more than one 12 pack of beers a day
-Eats more than anyone who lives here
-Doesn't offer to clean up anything
-Doesn't ask if he can stay here, just shows up and ends
up staying for more than 3 weeks at a time (last time he stayed 2 months)
-When he doesn't have any beer left, drinks ALL of my grandpa's
liquor. I mean, a whole bottle, the biggest ones available at the store. In
ONE day
-Has people calling our house
-Has company coming over our house
-Had a yard sale in front of our house
-Sits around all day doing nothing
-He's 50 years old!
-Can't hold a job
But the thing is, is that my grandpa is way too nice to tell him
to leave because he'll feel bad. He's too nice to kick him out even
though it bothers him. The only thing he is doing is bringing us down
with him. He always does this, everytime he doesn't have anywhere
to go he comes over here until someone kicks him out, but after a month
he comes right back. Its annoying. My grandma has kicked him
out, my Aunt has kicked him out, and my mom cussed him out and
kicked him out yesterday and he's back ALREADY! When they kicked
him out, they told him not to come back, but he still does only because
he knows my grandpa is too nice to kick him out.
But the thing that really pisses me off is that there are 8 of us
living here, and with him it makes it 9. We're already struggling
trying to feed ourselves, then he comes and we have to take care
of him too. It pisses me off because he eats 2-3 servings at dinner
every night until there's hardly anymore for any of us to get seconds.
But I don't want to make my grandpa mad by telling him to leave. I don't
know what to do. Its annoying because he walks around here acting like
he's welcome, he goes in our fridge when he pleases, and drinks 3 huge
cups of coffee every morning. I'm thinking my brothers and sisters and I should all tell him something so he can leave. Plus to make things worse
my grandma is still recovering from surgery from muscle invasive bladder
cancer, and we have to spend probably an extra 100$ a month for her
prescriptions, making it harder for us to buy groceries.
What should we do?!
Grr, its just, there's times to let your heart make decisions for you, and
there's times where you need to think with your brain, I just think my
grandpa doesn't want to be viewed as a mean person, so he can't say no
or kick him out.
I live with my grandparents, but my grandpa has this friend
that is ALWAYS bumming off of us. I mean, here are the bad things
-Drinks more than one 12 pack of beers a day
-Eats more than anyone who lives here
-Doesn't offer to clean up anything
-Doesn't ask if he can stay here, just shows up and ends
up staying for more than 3 weeks at a time (last time he stayed 2 months)
-When he doesn't have any beer left, drinks ALL of my grandpa's
liquor. I mean, a whole bottle, the biggest ones available at the store. In
ONE day
-Has people calling our house
-Has company coming over our house
-Had a yard sale in front of our house
-Sits around all day doing nothing
-He's 50 years old!
-Can't hold a job
But the thing is, is that my grandpa is way too nice to tell him
to leave because he'll feel bad. He's too nice to kick him out even
though it bothers him. The only thing he is doing is bringing us down
with him. He always does this, everytime he doesn't have anywhere
to go he comes over here until someone kicks him out, but after a month
he comes right back. Its annoying. My grandma has kicked him
out, my Aunt has kicked him out, and my mom cussed him out and
kicked him out yesterday and he's back ALREADY! When they kicked
him out, they told him not to come back, but he still does only because
he knows my grandpa is too nice to kick him out.
But the thing that really pisses me off is that there are 8 of us
living here, and with him it makes it 9. We're already struggling
trying to feed ourselves, then he comes and we have to take care
of him too. It pisses me off because he eats 2-3 servings at dinner
every night until there's hardly anymore for any of us to get seconds.
But I don't want to make my grandpa mad by telling him to leave. I don't
know what to do. Its annoying because he walks around here acting like
he's welcome, he goes in our fridge when he pleases, and drinks 3 huge
cups of coffee every morning. I'm thinking my brothers and sisters and I should all tell him something so he can leave. Plus to make things worse
my grandma is still recovering from surgery from muscle invasive bladder
cancer, and we have to spend probably an extra 100$ a month for her
prescriptions, making it harder for us to buy groceries.
What should we do?!
Grr, its just, there's times to let your heart make decisions for you, and
there's times where you need to think with your brain, I just think my
grandpa doesn't want to be viewed as a mean person, so he can't say no
or kick him out.
