Obviously I get what he is talking about, but that’s the Asian American experience of trying to make it in white America, be it in the entertainment industry or date white women. I went to international school (private English school) in Yokohama, and college in Boston but most of my life in Tokyo. So my experience is completely different. When I see Asian guys crying about not being able to date I just think, like you realize, the majority of women in the world are Asian right?
It is interesting how we all have different experiences and how impossible it is to really know what others have went through in different aspects of their lives. But also some of the ways things are very similar.
When he was talking about the language loss it reminded me of how my grandfather refused to let his kids learn spanish, my dad was told it was so the adults could talk without them understanding, but there was likely more to it. Also the job applications and subtle (but constant) racism is something that I think many people who are minority but can pass as white (like the person that freaked out in this thread).
It sounds like you have had some very good opportunities in life and have done well for yourself, well done.
I was lucky enough to get my name and photograph put in the local rag. Assault and battery with the dangerous weapon a 2x4. The case was dismissed after I spent about $2,500 in attorneys fees but no one will ever be made aware of that. It trashed my relatively good name and reputation and I didn't really didn't even hit him that hard. In any event there was absolutely zero evidence but I'm stuck with that reputation because it was a slow news day. I liken it to the woman who accuses a man of rape and then rescinds the accusation a week after he has made the paper and everyone including his wife and family as well as friends and employers will never see a retraction and so the poor bastard is scarred for life. Personally I think the woman should spend time in jail and not just be able to walk away. Your life can be destroyed permanently unless you're willing to pack up and leave the state. An accusation is almost as powerful as a conviction. I hope this girl who accused the black kid of having her phone is able to recover and be a productive citizen and realize the depth of the racism problem. Then again who knows.
INNOCENT UNTIL PROVEN GUILTY IS THE BIGGEST PILE OF B******* I HAVE EVER HEARD. JUSTICE AND THE CONSTITUTION HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH THE DISPOSITION. THOSE F****** ASSHOLES
lol no offense man, but 'didn't even hit him that hard' doesn't really sound like you were the victim.
But for real, guys need to wake the fuck up with the women being raped thing. It is not any question that guys have been raping women a lot for basically ever. You can't know what is going on in someone else's head, and guys are way too pushy when it comes to sex. Just because you think you didn't rape someone, doesn't make it true. Nobody is playing 'just the tip', they are raping someone who said no.
Even just the act of being a baby about it and throwing a temper tantrum when a woman denies you over and over again until they relent is essentially raping them, no means no. The sick cycle doesn't make it ok.
I don't know, going to jail for that? But then again it's her third time in a year getting into trouble and she is showing a history so maybe she will be off to jail, or at least rehab. I see worst shit on a daily basis though. Not sure what kind of glass bubble people live in where this = jail by itself. I mean I have seen full grown men watching kids play football on TV go and tackle them, I wonder if they were sent to jail.
Escalation.
Something in her life is likely causing her turmoil and I really hope she gets the help she needs. And she needs to lose her phone permanently and just step away from social media. I would bet her 'followers' are filled with cat fishing trolls radicalizing her.
