Having kids?

I have a girl and a boy. Yes they are worth it.

Kids are great. The first one is always awkward for a minute, but it passes once you get in the groove, then you can't imagine your life without a child. It's of course hard when you have to teach them right from wrong and catch them doing shit they shouldn't do or say. I was a dad at 19 so I had to get used to it really fast. Now I have 3 boys, 12, 8, and 5. It can be frustrating, but kids are so precious that all the negative parts of parenthood can take a back seat. I wouldn't trade being the father of my kids for anything.

Originally Posted by VILEPLUME

I am at that age now where I am thinking about having kids.

My girl and I are almost ready, but I wanted to ask you guys something first.

To the people that have kids, how many did you have and are they worth it?

To the people that are older and dont have kids and probably never will, do you regret not having them? And if not, what were you able to do without having to worry about kids all the time?

Thanks guys.

im 44 years old with no kids of my own, do i wish i had one or two of my own YES I DO.. but help raising my nephews is just as good as having my own i guess.. i love them like they were mine..
the nice thing about not having kids is you can go, do, see, eat, spend, buy, have., and shit not getting broke.. oh and the most important part.. kids can cost you your freedom. but life with out kids would be like life with out dogs and cats...BORING

i missed my kids growing up, i was always working. one day i arrived home and they were all gone - she took them to england of all places.

i had thought it was great fun throwing them out of airplanes (don't try to figure out your childs career path, they hate me for it). one return home after field surgery to many was the issue. kids are great fun but don't ignore your woman, remember that woman is their mommy. wives etc worry about you So will your childreni it's called love, took me a long time to learn. that's some of the reason they're with you, they want to kiss you better and not see you hurt.

I see my kids every now and then, I've cut my wife off. I still want to throw them out of airplanes

I'm 36,my not so little girl is nearly 9 now. She is the best thing that has come into my life,go for it mate you will never regret it,sometimes it's hard work but it's well worth it when they tell you how much they love you.

The wife and I finaly have a 6 day old baby girl after being together for 17 years.
It is the most awesome experience ever so far.

i have 2 boys and they are well worth it. just think i get to sit down and watch all the old school cartoons again.

I am a single father and have been for a very long time, 20 yo son and 15 yo daughter. My GF is my age and never had children. We have this talke a lot. Pros and Cons, first off I love them and would not trade them for my own life. They have been my pride and joy for a very long time and I dont regret a thing.

With that said listen and listen close. Go get fixed today, dont have them run away if you gf demands a child. It is just flat out like taking a gun and blowing your own head off every day for the rest of your life. Ass kicking, pain, labor, all your money, all your stuff, all your fears come to light.

LOL

I AM NOT KIDDING YOU GO GET FIXED TODAY.