Respect sex workers!

Originally Posted by xKuroiTaimax

I've kind of raved about the various reasons women can feel the need to give themselves away/sell themselves like that in various threads; L +F, the porn thread etc.. I won't go into it again or I'll end up relaying you my emo life story but I will say this.

Whatever happened to people meeting eachother, falling in love then getting freaky morning, noon and night?

Or if you don't want a serious relationship, why is sex with friends frowned upon but you can pay a dirty ho?

WHy resort to porn, then feeling no motivation to court/woo a real girl? Why resort to dirty prostitutes who will do anything or anyone for money instead of just finding a nice wifey type who turns into a ho in your bedroom only? It just looks like an admittance of one's laziness and reluctance to emotionally or sexually commit. I guys \9or girls i guess) are okay with openly admitting that I think there's a huge problem with society. Then girls are expected to act like whores because men like whores, take men for his money because she thinks thats what he expects but then get called sluts and hate themselves blah blah blah....

But to be fair, married women shouldn't suddenly start denying their husbands just because they can (we're in this for the long haul now, I can do what I want) Relationships are about give and take. I'm not saying women should let their husbands/partners rape them, but if the guy treats her right and takes care of her (that DOES NOT mean expensive gifts) then she should want to please him in any way she can in return (sexually and emotionally +housework lol). That's love. You know, where you go out of your way to make someone else feel happy.

Maybe if people did that men wouldn't have to run out here there and everywhere to get their rocks off. And if you just like the experience of sex with new different people or multiple partners, couldn't you just get to know them a little first?Maybe the notion of 'free love' wouldn't seem so shameful if people saw there could be mutual respect and friendship there rather than favoring the sex industry ('industry' is such a hard word )where it's all about the money. Sex is a gift... but gifts don't have to be paid for.

But yeah, if you are going to go to a prostitute... show the individual the respect a human being deserves. Sure they are going to allow you to sodomise them but they don't deserve abuse. I totally get the business of upper class escorts.. I won't lie I almost gave up on finding a guy who would treat me nicely and thought I may as well go down that road, but yeah maybe not encourage people to go into that industry but respect those already in it.

And those saying they can't get laid... well, you'll just have to wait until someone who likes who comes along lol It took me years but...

will you marry me? lol

Sadly I don't think that's how people see it anymore =(

I think a lot of it comes from the way men and women view sex differently, and i don't think there is anything we can do about that.

i think for the most part men see it as a prerequisite physical need, where as women see it as a service they are providing a man.

and yeah i know that's very general and there is more to it than that but i think that establishes the general mindset.

Originally Posted by Justin00

will you marry me?

Sadly I don't think that's how people see it anymore =(

Awwww! Sweetheart <3 I might be a little young lol

Yeah, It is sad, isn't it? The emptiness in some people..

I just saw your post in the thread about women. As you can see and I said some are sweet and some will kick you when you're down. It seems like you've had some bad experience... *hugs*

Originally Posted by xKuroiTaimax

Awwww! Sweetheart <3 I might be a little young lol

Yeah, It is sad, isn't it? The emptiness in some people..

I just saw your post in the thread about women. As you can see and I said some are sweet and some will kick you when you're down. It seems like you've had some bad experience... *hugs*

I'm only 14, how can you be too young? lol

and yeah i have had a hard time getting too close to any one person since my fiancee walked out 3 years ago. I just like the freedom and independence of being "single". I still date but i have no interest in letting it go that far again..... yet.

I also find it to be much easier to woo a girl and treat her good when you have nothing riding on the relationship. When your not living together and she is not blowing all your money on dog clothes and dumb stuff you can actually afford to take her to nice places and buy her nice things.

Originally Posted by Justin00

I'm only 14, how can you be too young? lol

and yeah i have had a hard time getting too close to any one person since my fiancee walked out 3 years ago. I just like the freedom and independence of being "single". I still date but i have no interest in letting it go that far again..... yet.

Me too, since a crush of 3 years asked me to move in with him, fooled around, we got really close, his family treated me like their own etc and the day I thought he was going to ask me to be his he told me he was sleeping with my best friend. The recently I fell for the first guy to ever tell me he loved me, only he loved someone else too and I had to come off worse. I'm still too scared to put a label on anything or truly allow myself to love again, but maybe in the future. After all I feel guilty withholding the thing I crave from others. Maybe no one loves anymore because they're all too beaten up from the past Shit, why'd she just go? And you had kids? You seem like a really decent guy (especially you not sounding all vindictive or cursing her name) wonder what went wrong... You can inbox me to vent if you'd like. I rant alot on this site, it's only fair to let others do the same lol

When it comes to young men I like the old bible expression. Here it is as a Winter Woman paraphrase:

Cast not your pearls before swine.


Urca, are you listening???


Edit: I don't actually mean ALL young men, just the horny ones.

Horny young men happen to be a completely natural phenomenon.

Originally Posted by xKuroiTaimax

Me too, since a crush of 3 years asked me to move in with him, fooled around, we got really close, his family treated me like their own etc and the day I thought he was going to ask me to be his he told me he was sleeping with my best friend. The recently I fell for the first guy to ever tell me he loved me, only he loved someone else too and I had to come off worse. I'm still too scared to put a label on anything or truly allow myself to love again, but maybe in the future. After all I feel guilty withholding the thing I crave from others. Maybe no one loves anymore because they're all too beaten up from the past Shit, why'd she just go? And you had kids? You seem like a really decent guy (especially you not sounding all vindictive or cursing her name) wonder what went wrong... You can inbox me to vent if you'd like. I rant alot on this site, it's only fair to let others do the same lol

ok you caught me, i'm not actually 14..... I'm 26 and didn't mean to look all pedo, but that is the first time i have ever had a girl i was discussing sex with tell me shes probably to young for me, but alas old age sneaks up on us all =(.

I agree with you completely, its just my perspective is a little different these days.

Originally Posted by Justin00

ok you caught me, i'm not actually 14..... I'm 26 and didn't mean to look all pedo, but that is the first time i have ever had a girl i was discussing sex with tell me shes probably to young for me, but alas old age sneaks up on us all =(.

I agree with you completely, its just my perspective is a little different these days.