My Dad is Giving Me Problems, Need Your Advice

Originally Posted by Islam

My mom can't say much to my dad because he's way too controlling. He doesn't listen to her most of the time and will always criticize her. I have to step in, he'd make mom go mad! If you were in my shoes you'd understand what's going on.
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Long standing marriages are ballets. The quieter one, usually the woman, gets the sympathy but the truth is this is a relationship of equals. Stay out of your parents marriage. If your mother is willing to triangulate you into to doing something behind her husbands back think about 30 years from now. YOU are married and your wife is triangulating YOUR children behind your back and supporting your children's disrespectful attitude toward you.

Stay out of this, PLEASE. You can't win this and there are huge psychological issues in this you are completely unaware of. Please if you want YOUR future marriage to not be like your mom and dads get out of the middle of THEIR marriage. Instead watch the dynamic and learn and focus on growing up, getting an education and a career and moving out. That is your job not a pseudo rescue of your mother that is all just manipulative bullshit. Your mother is NOT helpless and your father is NOT a controlling bastard. This is their marriage and their dance and it works for them even though you do not understand nor see the sense of it. If your mother didn't like it she could change it in an instant. She lives in a free country. PLEASE stop and refocus your efforts on yourself you are not their equal, you do not have the insight to judge one right and the other wrong.

Originally Posted by beginner.legal.growop

Unless you want to poison your mom do not get her miracle grow chemical fertilizer!!!!!!

Ridiculous.

Originally Posted by Islam

I'm in Ontario, Canada. Everything is so damn expensive here.

canadian tire, everythings quite cheap i just bought soil for 2 dollars

If they cut off the hand that steals then what do you cut off a person like you? their nose for being were it should'nt?
Their tonge for speeking against their Father? Their Butt for being lazy??
If you were my son I'd cut you off and kick your ass to the curb.
If your going to live off your father and under his roof abide by his wishes.

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Originally Posted by scroglodyte

its your mother's place to tell dad she wishes to have cannabis grown for her by you. not yours. stay out of their marriage. being a son isn't a free pass into their relationship. its their crib. its their marriage. and............respect them 'cause ya know its right. not because of that book. that book also tells you to kill me, force me to convert, or make me a second-class citizen. i refer to the Suras............

http://www.lohar.com/Attacks_on_Islam.pdf

Originally Posted by mysunnyboy

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7-UP works better then Pepsi in the latter weeks of flowering.

My bad 7-UP is the uncola. I meant Dr. Pepper.